We’ve been married for 1 year to this date.
Aaaaand I’m stuck at work today 😑
But that’s okay, we’re going out for a fancy dinner tomorrow.
^ one of my favorite pictures from our wedding, the photographer was wonderful!
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on becoming a Trial-Moderator! Best of luck to you.
and congrats to
For moving up from Trial to Global Moderator!
New Staff List, since the last one might be a bit out dated:
Have a nice day everyone!
I’m going to make this really short and simple so all of you understand.
and no im not calling anyone out, this is for everyone since we forgot how to be civilized.
It is okay to downvote posts.
Shocker, i know. But Some of you seem to be having a hard time understanding that downvoting isn’t against the rules. If you don’t like a topic, you can downvote it. That’s completely fine. Just as much as you can upvote topics you like too!
We seem to be having trouble with arguments breaking out and people being upset with other people.
Well I have a simple solution for you.
if you dont like someone, block them.
We’re getting tired of breaking up arguments, and are going to start muting offenders for long periods of time if it keeps getting out of control.
Good evening, it’s ya boi.
I’m not calling anyone out with this post, but there’s been a few things happening recently and I just want everyone to be on the same page.
It doesn’t matter if you’re under 18, if you’re flirting, and harassing, or even dating someone significantly younger than you, it is still wrong and can get you into serious trouble. Some of these users are way too young to be dating 16 and 17 year olds.
If you’re being harassed or flirted with by someone older and they’re making you feel uncomfortable, please don’t hesitate to report it to any of the staff here. We take these types of scenarios very seriously.
Thank you, and have a nice day everyone!
I had a conversation/advice session with someone recently about letting toxic people walk away from your life and it just kind of stuck with me. For some reason, a lot of people, including younger me, had trouble letting people who you don’t matter much to, walk away.
I know we all deal with toxic people but I’m talking about those “Friends” in your life that seem to only support you when they’re on the up and up. People in life that seem to have you in their current setting but don’t seem to have you as a part of their bigger picture.
I’ve had a lot of people walk in and out of my life and for the most part, I can say I am proud and happy with where I ended up. I have said it before, but I have a very tightly knit group of people I consider my close friends. These are people that I would trust my life with, people who would be there for me in my darkest times, and vice versa. These are the people that should truly matter and you should never let go.
On the other hand, people who you fight with, people who seem to have their values out of order, and people who drag you down and hold you back from your potential because it benefits them? These are people who we cannot be afraid to walk away from. It’s tough sometimes to let go of things but in the grand scheme of life, we’re here for way too short of a time period to waste air and effort on those who would not return it with no questions asked.
I’ve made my mindset known to most people that I am very “middle ground” with almost everyone I meet. This is because it sets a tone, and a standard that if you aren’t rooting for me and my success, then that favor is well returned. I think that mindset is simply a part of me growing up and I hope than many of you can share in this thought process that not everyone’s moral values are the same, and that sometimes, those toxic people we keep bringing back into our lives just simply aren’t worth fighting for.
TL;DR: The unfortunate part of life is knowing that not everyone out there is rooting for you, and it’s important to hold people who ARE, closer to you than those who aren’t.
I hope y’all have a good day! 👍
For those who don’t know, I was in the ER yesterday with some major chest pain and light headedness. Spent about 6 hours in the ER while they did a multitude of tests and whatnot. I am okay now, it turns out my Pericardium became so inflamed and swollen that it was causing complications with the way my heart functioned, causing me to feel light headed, nauseous, and obviously pain. I am, like I said, okay now, I’m on some mega super anti-inflammatory medication and I’m at low risk for heart attack as it stands, so thanks for caring and looking out, gonna take a lot more than inflammation to take this ol’ dog down.
TL;DR: I am okay.
Hey guys, Lets not make these posts anymore.
I know its nice to hear feedback from people, but as the mod team has discussed, it’s also really likely to cause fighting and arguments.
I know some of you are thick skinned and can take criticism, but that doesn’t mean everyone can.
So we wont’t be doing those from now on, Okay? Okay.
Wanting to change is a very big responsibility. It requires forgetting your past, and leaving it behind to start anew. A lot of people try to change and end up back where they started too. It’s hard, but if you’re willing to work hard at yourself and be a good person, there’s nothing stopping you.
I’ve always been a huge advocate of self worth and change. One of my favorite quotes is:
“If there’s something in your life you wish to change or better, change it. Most people don’t see how simple it is.”
I understand that.
But like I was saying, the forums aren’t a place to take serious issues like this, especially if they involve other members of the community.
I know you know, this will only cause more issues. If you’re having trouble with specific people on the forums, mods help with that. Creating a topic about people or the way they make you feel, tends to cause unnecessary tension.
I’m not discrediting your feelings, I’m only saying the forums probably aren’t a good place to settle issues like that.
I’ve made a post about situations like this
It’s important to know when to let go, and when not to.
Jeongin Please refrain from making topics to get the attention of a mod or admin, DMs are the best way to reach us.