For me, it’s:
9:00pm: only my mom cares
“Why did she already go to bed?”
“Must be nice to just go to bed whenever you want.”
“Why are you going to bed. I got up earlier and IM still awake.”
Alternate situation:
11pm: only my dad cares
“Goodnight, guys. Don’t stay up too late.” closes their bedroom door for the night
Needless to say, my dad is a lot nicer.