@Toxic_Marshmallow I used to know a guy named Orange. Not the same guy, but it was just a “haha” moment I guess. I was mentioning Tree since he knows them too.
You aren't the asshole you never asked them to do anything, so if she has some stupid shit to say about it then she could really stop making you food. Simple as that.
So in this case, no, you are NOT the asshole in this situation.