btw uh is this a weird thing to ask for a cw/tw on >_>'
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spidermeow Well if you don’t mind me asking. When did this friend do this?
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just say
“FUCK OFF BITCH”
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@Duchess october 14th this year (the day they left), the middle of or early this month we got into like the biggest fight ever and I’m making a thread on who they truly are xD
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spidermeow Well…do you still want to be their friend? Or do you just want to let this one go.
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@Duchess i dont wanna be their friend anymore but I have a different way of dealing with stress/revenge so I don’t let it go til I get my revenge
they said the worst things imaginable to me so like I said, I’m eager to let my friends know who astrid really is -
spidermeow so why would you need a trigger warning for it then,
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spidermeow Are you making the thread to hurt this person…?
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@Duchess 50/50, i guess hurt their rep but they know how I felt and made fun of me for having a panic attack over this situation
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@DREAMY bcuz every time i see their name it just makes me feel a negative way
a LOT of negative way
I get reminded of how close we were and how they basically just friended me to chew me up and spit me out and made me feel worthless- -
spidermeow Well, I don’t really suggest revenge. I know it might feel good to get back at someone for treating you like dirt, but life’s not about eye for and eye. I once knew two guys who did some very terrible things against me. I was very hurt by them, but I never seeked revenge because I knew that’d make me no better than them. You can inform your friends what this person’s done to you with the intention of saving them the trouble of this character. But I wouldn’t publicly tell them to ruin their rep so you can harm them. Maybe just the dm’s if you really wanted to tell someone. The best thing you can do is to just detox from them. If you feel that strongly about not wanting to be their friend (which I completely understand), just remove them from your life and start working away from them instead of lingering that relationship with wanting revenge. This is not me telling you what to do, and I know you weren’t asking my opinion on what to do… But just a thought I suppose. I hope all will end well with you and recovering from this person.
