Don't see why it matters
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jun Not to come at you with an attack, but I don’t know why people use the phrase “it’s just me” or as you said, “its in my nature,” as a reason / excuse to be rude. Being rude is not personality trait. It’s the act of being inconsiderate for other people around. And if you strongly believe that’s you being you, I think you can also realize when it’s necessary and unnecessary to bring that into an obviously serious topic. If people dont have something kind to say to someone who is clearly having a hard time, don’t say anything at all : ) And it’s not a point of opressing you for being you, it’s just common courtesy to not make people feel worse than they already do.
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@Duchess hate to say it, but being rude is most definitely a trait of mine. quit bothering me on the subject when it’s already been ended.
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@Duchess
who is clearly having a hard time
either youre too obsessed with being “a nice guy” or you just have no idea what a person going through hard time looks like
every sane adult knows this when he sees it:
Re-read the topic again, then try to think not about the words themselves but about the way this personed typed them. All this dramatic pauses and statements like “you will be fine without me” clearly reflecting self-pityness. Obviously its on the level of subconsciousness, but thats not an excuse anyway. Pointing that out to the person(=criticizing, not “being rude”) is not a bad thing -
MGC well since I found I have 3 hours left, 1. I don’t need no fucking attention, I’ve lived without it sooooo, yeah fucck that, 2. Ik I don’t see you talking against one of the most inspirational people on here
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@The-one-guy-who-deserves-nothing brother, you getting all defensive only proves my point
1)if you didnt need attention you would not create this topic in a first place, or at least phrased it differently to not concern people
2)i dont really care who people think is “the most inspirational person here”, that doesnt make them a god who you should always agree with and never criticize their points -
@The-one-guy-who-deserves-nothing jun @Duchess
Okay, I know I’m a bit late to this post, but this is kinda silly lol
Being rude isnt a personality trait, it’s a character trait. You might be rude often, and you might be predisposed to being rude, but that’s because you’ve done it so often you let it become a character trait, which can still change.
Secondly, Duchess was trying to be nice, which sure it might come across as always trying to be nice, but that literally is a good character trait, trying to me nice I mean. That’s what she gets happiness from. Now, I’m not saying that OP isnt in victim mentality here either. A lot of people on mppc come across that way though. So, it can be hard to tell. It’s kind of a deep moral question on whether you should always help everyone who says that they’re a victim, or if you should avoid helping people you don’t believe are truly hurting/in a bad place.If you ask me, it’s better to be nice most of the time. Having victim mentality doesnt mean you don’t still have problems, yknow? But I think there also is a point to be made not to feed into that kind of behavior. That all being said, it is mppc. It’s very difficult to tell when someone is actually going through something tough or if they’re just in need of attention, so I’d like to be clear that I’m not claiming OP is in victim mentality either. It could go either way from what I know.
Also finally, sorry to chip in, so awkwardly, I dont mean to be rude, but. I just think there’s places everyone can improve and no one here should hold any of this against each other.
Anyways, thanks for reading this! Have a nice morning/day/evening/night! -
@The-one-guy-who-deserves-nothing you r you ignoring me
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jun STOPPPPPPP!
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@The-one-guy-who-deserves-nothing damn nooo dont go !
