Advice Corner Vol. 11

[A Former User]

I’m assuming these are by the same person, if not, regardless I’m going to do both.

Look, you don’t have to worry about bothering me, especially with these. I have a choice to do this, if people bothered me with them I just wouldn’t do it anymore, so don’t worry. I am always happy to help.

I struggled with self worth for years, feeling like I didn’t matter to anyone and that I wasn’t good enough to be associated with anyone.

But you know something that makes life just all that much easier? It’s a little saying that goes “Who gives a shit how anyone else feels about me”.

The only, and I mean only person out in this huge planet you should be worried about impressing is yourself. You should matter to you. My whole mindset in life is based on that. I do things for me, myself and I. You’re the only person who knows you as well as you do, so when other people judge you or disrespect you, they don’t know what your story is, or what you’ve been through, so their opinion doesn’t matter.

That being said, of course you matter. There’s a lot of people out there that care about you. And, to the people who like to tell you they don’t? Tell them to fuck off and that you don’t care what they think.

There’s your key to self happiness. It took me years to figure that out but it’s been great ever since I stopped caring what people had to say.