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@Duchess so to tell that story we gotta go back, we started dating 4 weeks after we met, instant connection type shit yk. she said she loved me after we’d been dating for 2 weeks, i wasnt ready to say it. she guilted me into it, it evwntually beit eventually became true. then she cheated and she’d apologize and say she’d never dio it again and be like “oh well i never meant to hurt you im so sorry im stupjd, idk why i did that.” this wad about 6 months in. then she never started anyone else after abt 11 months but she continued flirting and entertaining other people. she callrd me her soulmate, thw love of her life, her smile and sunshine. uh she used to tell me rhe thjngs i told her i wished my parents told me so i became attached to that validation and so her. i told her to stop and she never did. it wad the littlwas the little things, she remembered my favorite color , things i said, shes a charmer. she used to guilt trip me for being top close to other people for fear of losing me. so, i broke up qith her, about 4 months later i started dating mari, we’ve been dating for 7-8 months atp. so my ex who im loosely friends with is sending her screenshotsf old texg messages but edited and mari can tell theyre edited but its getting to her head and im trying my best but its not working and its annoying
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@Duchess No it’s just extremely stressful. The school is called “The english school” despite it being in Sweden
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@Duchess to start caring about myself, start taking care of myself, and to not care about what others think about me
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My father’s actitude every time I come back from school
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jeff.isweird said in A better life?:
i never meant to hurt you
:I Yeah right. You don’t cheat and “never mean to hurt anyone.”
Honestly, all of this sounds very close to a narcissistic relationship. I absolutely could be wrong, but the fact that they bomb you with the thoughtful & charming stuff to win you over, are very unloyal, are jealous of you being close to other people, they guilt trip, and they now sabotage your current relationship… Yeah, that’s extremely toxic if not narcissistic. I used to be friends with a guy who did those very things to me and I found out he was a narcissist. Of course I’d have to know her myself but wowzers. I am glad your girlfriend doesn’t think the screenshots are real but I think you really need to start considering going no contact with this person. They’re messing up your life as I see, and that’s no way to live. How come you consider them a loose friend?
@Pԋσҽɳιx Whoa, what? Well that’s weird. Are you falling behind because of all this?
@OVERLORD What does he do/say?
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@Duchess I’ve got great grades but I’d rather have terrible grades and not be stressed out
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@Pԋσҽɳιx Right, yeah. I understand that. Stress for a long time can have a negative impact on your health, even.
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That this one girl would just leave bcs she ruined everything for me and before she came everything was fine, in fact everything was perfect but she came and she ruined it all, so I wish she’d be gone 🫤
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@7o2_an-a What is bcs?
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@Duchess because
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@7o2_an-a OHH I feel silly
Okay, so were you friends with this girl at some point?
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@Duchess I feel.like this is targeted to me.
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Angiee😻 I meant to mention @7o2_an-a
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Wait, yes I did. Why are you thinking that’s targeted at you?
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@Duchess Bc every since I got here its been problems with me and her so.
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@7o2_an-a and then they call me fake and talk shit and it’s just not a good friendship😪🙏🏼
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Angiee😻 if u think it’s targetted towards you, then yk you’ve done something wrong🤷♀️
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@7o2_an-a So was it a betrayal? or
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@Duchess yeah, basically. People tend to do that for more Eason or just to try and get back at you for things,
