I wish I wasn't so scared to tell people they've hurt me
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I just hate making people upset and I don’t want arguments again. I’m tired and scared from all of the arguments I’ve had to go through, all the depressing nights with “I love you, night” instead of “I love you so so so so so so much, goodnight baby”, all the days I’ve had to sit there and cry in the bathroom stalls because I was just too fucking depressed to do my work because every single day something happened and I was scared that I was gonna lose someone, and because I tried to give my advice I was yelled at, because I was scared and trying to be there for them, I was yelled at and treated like shit. All the effort I put into making others happy, all the effort I put into being just right, all the fucking effort I put into each and every person I know, and I’m hurt always.
I just wish people would treat me better so I didn’t have to sit here crying because I was hurt inside but too scared to tell them they hurt me.
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@Hexers-Angel Has this person consistently made you scared to tell them how you feel? I know you say that you tried giving them advice and you get yelled at. Have you told them you’re afraid of getting yelled at by them? Sometimes what you vent to someone else about is exactly what you should tell that person. No guarantee it would help though. I just think this person should know you’re afraid of telling them how you feel. You don’t have to go in and say “i am scared to tell you how i feel. This is what i feel [insert feelings].” You can just tell them the part where youre afraid of getting yelled at for expressing your feelings towards them. You don’t have to say what those said feelings are yet. This person might be upset at first, but please ride it through. If they want to help you feel safe with them, they should be aware of how they make you feel, and try to help you feel more comfortable expressing your emotions.
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@Duchess oh, it’s multiple people actually
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@Hexers-Angel a lot of people hurt me like this lol
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@Hexers-Angel Oh I see. How do you feel about telling these people youre afraid to tell them they hurt you?
