Uh so I'm pretty fuckin upset rn

[A Former User]

I have two married biological parents, who live in the same house. But they fight and argue and have traumatized me and my brothers. I don’t like the fact that just because I have two parents like this, all of a sudden it’s okay. It’s not okay. Them fighting in… The way that they have… When we were little… had scarred me forever. But hey, at least they live in the same house and they’re both married right?? At least I have two parents right??? At least they give us what we need right??? At least I’m not dead. Right. At least. I’m not on meds. Right??? At least, they only fight on the phone, right? At least my mom wasn’t vomiting blood, she was vomiting alcohol, right? At least my mom only said she’d be getting a divorce twice, right? At least I only broke up their fights a few times when I was a young child, right? I’m so lucky right? At least my family isn’t COMPLETELY dysfunctional right???

I hate being a stereotype. I hate being told my problems are invalid. I hate it. Even my mom tried to tell me that when I was bawling in her room at 5 am cause of something fucking terrifying. I don’t cry in front of her, EVER. why do we think it’s fine to put others down still?

[Lainey]

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[A Former User]

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[A Former User]

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[A Former User]

@JeffMyBeloved huh

[A Former User]

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[A Former User]

@JeffMyBeloved said in Uh so I'm pretty fuckin upset rn:

why do we think it’s fine to put others down still?

this got me. why do people think that its necessary and okay to put others down still. like i would have figured people would have figured out that everyone has problems and they dont need to be put down as much as they do or even at all. nobody should be put down by others. no matter the situation. especially if those people have gone through more than the person that is picking on them could ever imagine. i hate people like that.

and im really sorry about the fighting and problems that are going on at home and with your parents. thats honestly really sad to hear and im sorry you have to go through that. no kid should have to hear their parents problems especially fighting and no kid should have to break it up or feel traumatized from it. thats honestly really sad to hear. im so sorry.

[A Former User]

𝜗𝜚 rylie it’s alright I guess, it’s just sad when I have something to say about my parents fighting, it’s either my mom or one of my friends who decide to say “oh but at least you HAVE two parents” and it just sucks cause I mean yeah… but I sometimes wish they’d divorced when I was little so I didn’t have to deal with all the trauma and pain I did.