Genuine question
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So personally I’ve been debating having my moderator status removed and I wanna hear what y’all have to say abt it
I’d like actually responses. Don’t bullshit here -
no u good mod
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@Izzy how so? If I may ask. Like what do I do better than the other ones?
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have no opinion on this matter but i am gonna say that it’s all up to you
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@Thetruepath u help a lot w the community, you’re funny, u give out good advice
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@Thetruepath I think you should do whatever you think will benefit you the most.
The moment we stick around in places just because we’re wanted around, is when you lose control.
If you think you’re better off without the burden of taking care of this miserable, drama filled cess pool, then that’s 100% your choice and we respect that through and through.
You shouldn’t stay around places or people that are toxic to you, even if you’re wanted there, it very well may be holding you back.
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@CaptainPresto it’s not that I don’t love doing this. It makes me honestly very happy getting to help people. But I’m just kinda scared with my deteriorating mental health that I’m going to say something and people will make it worse on me because I’m a mod or whatever TF else
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@Thetruepath well, like I said, if it’s healthy for you to step away, no matter how long, to protect your mental health, then we all will respect that, and wish you well.
I have been in that spot, mentally drained, but in need of satisfying those around me. I needed a break, but felt like I wasn’t allowed to.
Don’t let us hold you back, take a mental break and come back when you’re ready!
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@CaptainPresto @Thetruepath Yeah, ultimately it’s honestly what you think would benefit you - if you’re worried that it might take a more deteriorating toll on your mental health, then it’s totally alright let go of your status if it’s your choice right now. Your mental health is way more important to us.
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@CaptainPresto I might
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Idk if I need just a break or something or if I genuinely want it removed. I’m just confused lol
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@CaptainPresto So true.
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the thing u said abt ur mental health
it made me sad
bc i feel like mods think js bc they r a mod their problems are not valid.
Mods have problems too, we get it, you guys are human after all
we won’t judge u ttp -
@Izzy it’s not just that. If I wanted to vent to one of y’all or another mod or whatever. All I’d need to do is make a post about it and ask to talk. It’s more along the lines of with me snapping the other day and just losing my shit. I don’t want that to happen again to someone else who probably didn’t deserve it
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@Thetruepath honestly…zofya deserved it…js saying…
anyways, u prob wont, and u not being a mod and doing it wont change anything tho. but i get where u r coing from -
@Izzy idk lol. I’m not really thinking straight. I’m so bipolar 💅
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@Thetruepath bipolar queen 💅
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@Izzy ongg 😂 but genuinely my mood just… switches like boom happy go lucky childish dumbass to depressed asshole. Lmao
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@Thetruepath same w everyone else on this site🙄
anyways yes true
u can act dumb one sec then act like a mod the next -
@Thetruepath idk why. It just happens