Something everyone in a relationship (or going to be) needs to know.

[A Former User]

As you can see, This is about this red flag,

Today, I would like to talk to you about something that has been weighing heavily on us as a generation. Our society often places undue emphasis on personality traits, leading many to believe that physical attraction should take a back seat in relationships. However, I am here to tell you that both aspects hold equal importance in forming meaningful connections.

To begin with, it is natural to be attracted to someone physically. After all, it is part of human nature. So, if you do not find someone mildly appealing or attractive, then why waste each other’s time? Dating should never be motivated by pity or a sense of obligation. Instead, it ought to be based on mutual respect, admiration, and compatibility between two individuals.

Furthermore, I urge you not to conform to societal expectations that dictate whom you should date. Your partner should complement you, uplift you, and bring joy to your life. If your potential suitor questions whether you’re interested due to their appearance, weight, or height, be honest and upfront about your feelings. There is no need to sugarcoat things or hide behind false pretenses. Honest communication fosters trust and understanding, laying the foundation for a healthy relationship.

Moreover, there are countless people out there who will appreciate and cherish you for who you are. You deserve authenticity, love, and affection from someone genuinely compatible with you. Don’t settle for anything less than that. Life is too short to spend time with someone merely out of sympathy or fear of being alone. Remember, you are worthy of real love and connection.

TL;DR: Society sometimes prioritizes personality over physical attraction in relationships, but both aspects are equally important. It’s natural to be attracted to someone physically, and dating should be based on mutual respect, admiration, and compatibility. Be honest about your feelings towards a potential partner, and don’t conform to societal expectations. Seek genuine appreciation, love, and connection rather than settling out of pity or fear of loneliness.

If you feel that this offends you, Speak to me in my DMS.

[A Former User]

@Kumi-Hoshi
I dont think anyone is offended, I think its just a bad take

[A Former User]

@MrTree 👍🏽👍🏽 gotcha! I would re-phrase it But I do think how I explained it here was pretty good

Even then people wouldn’t understand :,>

[A Former User]

@Kumi-Hoshi honestly based for taking it lightly

[A Former User]

@MrTree Thanks