Daily Reminder
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๊งโโโฆ๐๐๐๐๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐โฆโ โ๊ง I admit, Im kind of struggling to forgive my dad. Itโs been about a month since he did his โoopsieโ but heโs so quick to forget what he does. He acts like weโre friends again, even the next day, but never thinks how much of a dent he leaves. His attitude about it has been just too gross for me to feel like he deserves the same love again. The fact that heโs not sorry and doesnt even think he did anything wrong in the first place is whatโs making me so upset. I feel kind of silly not really knowing how to move past this since I try to tell others how to do just that. I guess ive forgiven my dad so many times that i feel like not forgiving him this one time is staying strong for once. I should forgive but itโs hard to seperate how to forgive and not forget, yknow? Because ill likely never forget how I was treated.
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Duchess Itโs completely understandable that youโre struggling with this. Forgiveness can be incredibly challenging, especially when someone doesnโt acknowledge the hurt theyโve caused. Itโs okay to feel upset and conflicted about it. Forgiveness doesnโt mean forgetting or excusing what happened; itโs about finding peace for yourself. Maybe taking some time to process your feelings and boundaries could help. Remember, forgiveness is a journey, not a destination, and itโs okay to take it one step at a time.
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๊งโโโฆ๐๐๐๐๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐โฆโ โ๊ง said in Daily Reminder:
Remember, forgiveness is a journey, not a destination,
Yeahh, thatโs so true.
I have tried to give myself time to process what happened, but sadly, my dad doesnt exactlyโฆstopโฆactingโฆpoorly, i guess Ill say lol. So it keeps bringing up my feelings again. I feel like the only thing thatโll help me feel better is reminding myself heโs not worth my energy andโฆjust not care about him anymore? Iโve avoided working with him and avoided one-on-one trips, which I guess has helped me stay out of his path. Itโs just pretty disappointing to think about basically mentally dissing him as my father since there was a point I thought he was the one person I could lean on. I wish my relationship with him felt like how it did years ago but I know it cant go back becuase the only reason it felt good was because I didnt know I was hurt then too. Now, I guess itโs literally just me and the people Iโve met on mpp/mppc. Despite only knowing you all online, at least the relationships I have here are the most genuine thing I have.