To be honest, saying all this shit about love just isnβt true. What is true about love is that, it hurts. It hurts but you get through it. Whatβs true about love is that youβll fight. And youβll argue. But youβll communicate your way through it and find a solution because you both work out. Whatβs true about love is that sometimes you have to take breaks to make sure you both are bettering yourselves to love each other better. Whatβs true about love is that you will cry from the pain of your lover, and that they will cry from your pain too, but that is because they love you. Whatβs true about love is that youβll find it and youβll be happy knowing you found it and that no matter what happens and no matter how much you guys go through, you guys still manage to keep on going and working things out.
What you both described, IS NOT LOVE. Donβt ruin love for others because of emotional abuse. I assume you might be in middle-highschool, you still have so much to learn about love and relationships. Besides itβs too early to love properly now.