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People like to turn pain into a competition here to see who goes through more pain and to make people feel invalid and if you do this on this post I swear to god I’m gonna block you.
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I come here to get away from my real life and to get away from reality and I just end up getting drama here too
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And you wanna know why I haven’t left yet?
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Because who else is gonna look out for my best friends and make sure that they’re OK like I am.
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I’m sorry you’re going through this…
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And I’ve seen so much stuff lately of people saying if you don’t text me everyday then you don’t really care about me
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And it’s killing my vibe and it’s just killing me inside.
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Hey I understand that you’re struggling a lot but listen I learned this from my parents and I don’t really think it helped but I think it will help someone like you Well what I’m trying to say is people are going to move on people are going to go away It happens and I did lose people in my life I lost my grandpa who I didn’t really know much but it really hurt me that I lost a family member I also lost my best friend of a year another best friend of a year and I just went through a toxic relationship with a very best friend of 3 years which is the longest time for me which is really heartbreaking because I get really attached to people too.
I understand what’s going on in this situation and I’m here whenever you need me Okay? <3
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@welmyymelmyy I care…
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If you need to spend some time off this site for a moment you can.
free your mind.
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“People like to turn pain into a competition here to see who goes through more pain and to make people feel invalid and if you do this on this post I swear to god I’m gonna block you.”
So true. And that’s how people end up being afraid to tell others about the things they’re going through. Because they’re so afraid to get it belittled / compared to by others.
I strongly believe people go through things on different levels, and it should never be a competition to simply get someone to listen to your pain… When someone tells you they’re going through something, it’s not an invitation to tell them what your going through too. Sometimes people think that since they’re struggling, the whole world should bow down to their sadness. Maybe they don’t say it, but when they’re asking and basically pleading for sympathy, that’s when you know.
While you have silent sufferers who’re afraid to say anything because they don’t want people to attack them and say, “well how would you like if this or that happened to you,” or “I wish that’s all I had to worry about.” And honestly. it’s disgusting. It truly is. Because, as I said, people go through suffering in all forms. And guess what. Because everyone is different. We react to things differently that others.
When two people have gone through the same thing and, one is sad and the other is unbothered, just because you’re unbothered by it, doesn’t mean you should ever…tell the other that they’re making a big deal. Ever. Because you don’t know them. You don’t know their past, and you don’t know their thoughts.
So when you read someone talking about a situation that you too have been though don’t get mad that they’re reaching out while you sit there doing nothing for yourself.
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