Alright just to tell everyone.

[A Former User]

@CherryPotatouwu same with mine. He does drugs too so that doesn’t help

[finn.in.outer.space.]

If he’s treated you like that then why would you want to?

[A Former User]

HEY
be grateful!
at least you have a dad unlike me

[finn.in.outer.space.]

A lot of people assumed that just because there are a parrot or a family member that you have to care about them but you’re not legally obligated to blood does not make you obligated to care about somebody.

[Shazz_]

@RyLIE-Offline Oh no D :
I hope the best for your dad to regain health <3

[Zang]

@RyLIE-Offline well if he hasnt been there the most of your life then why go see him if he doesnt/didnt make an effort to see you then dont make the effort to go see him if he wants to be a jacked up father witch im not saying he is then dont see him but if you think it can change to your relationship with him then yea go see him but its you r choise to do that

[A Former User]

@RyLIE-Offline
Hey, dont lose hope yknow? I’ve found that’s the best thing you can do when it comes to illness. If you don’t have hope, what do you really have? Plus, there’d be no point in worrying about it if he comes out fine yknow? That being said I dont know the situation. I hope he recovers…

I just read the rest of this topic lol. Uh, well for his sake I hope he recovers, but that’s really unfortunate D :

[A Former User]

@Knox can you maybe not? i dont have to have a dad honestly.

[A Former User]

@victor_satan alright

[A Former User]

@MrTree yea

[A Former User]

fbs

[A Former User]

@CherryPotatouwu
@Knox

CMON! It’s terribly rude to compare your struggles as more important or something when someone vents about stuff like this.

Please don’t be like that

[A Former User]

@Your-Local-Non-Binary-Kiddo alright.

[A Former User]

@welmyymelmyy yeah but honestly if your fathers on life support you shouldn’t care about how shitty they are you should see them anyways because they brought you here in the first place

[A Former User]

there should always be a certain level of respect there its your parents

[finn.in.outer.space.]

I mean yeah it’s your parents whatever but just because they’re your parents does not mean that you have to go see them if they’re on their deathbed especially if they’ve made it clear that they don’t care about you and that they haven’t seen you in 9 years

[A Former User]

i get your point but its the person that brought you to the world exiting the world

[finn.in.outer.space.]

If they choose not to be in your life why force yourself into their life

[A Former User]

you never know they could be giving you a whole-hearted apology but you didn’t get to hear it because you decided to not go

[finn.in.outer.space.]

Will it’s not me going so it’s really not my choice but I’m saying that just because someone is your parent doesn’t mean that you have to go support them.