Honestly just a little vent
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Itās hard to be the depressed funny friend, you go through so much and I make jokes about every pc of trauma I go through and people ask me if Iām okay and I say Iām fine, but thatās a lie Iām not okay Iām going through way too much right now.
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@jeff-is-my-4lifer Iām the friend, and I do suffer.
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I genuinely need therapy and help because Iāve been trying because thereās people going through worse things than me and my mom always remind me that thereās people going through worst things but what Iām going through seems like it
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@jeff-is-my-4lifer my dms are open. if you want to vent,
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Because sometimes it just feels like people just keep me around just to have me around and they donāt really need me around, and it hurts to think about the fact that everybody who I need in my life doesnāt need me around or doesnāt want me around just keep me around not hurt my feelings.
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Iām always open to talk. Literally all it takes is a few buttons and youāll have a response ASAP. If you EVER need something just let me know and Iāll be right here
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Iām going through much more than what I let on, people always tell me that I seem really mysterious and thatās what I am I donāt like talking about my feelings and I donāt like letting people know about my feelings because I donāt like people in my business.
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@jeff-is-my-4lifer i am here for you.
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@jeff-is-my-4lifer honestly I can relate, being the funny depressed friend. I do empathize with you, and I am very sorry that you go through so much and feel you canāt talk to anyone. I just want you to know, you can always talk to me. Donāt let your feelings build up like that, it just makes it worse for yourself and those around who see your suffering, and the people on here too. You need to open up, as hard as it is, I find it extremely hard to open up. But, Iām here for you, a lot of people are here for you, Iām willing to chat with you anytime. Okay? Ily <3
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@Hexed-To-Death ilyt pookie
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@jeff-is-my-4lifer Perhaps you pin yourself with the ādepressed funny friendā role and not realize it is unhealthy. I agree that jokes are fun and make things better, but I think people steam roll over their depression way too much today. Most people want to be that funny friend that never act sad. People today downplay their problems in a fun little joke but not realize that could be doing more harm than healing. I would not stick to being the person you think people want from you and start being real with yourself. The amount of times you deny yourself and your pain will only create more sadness and further depression. If people want to be someone who jokes about their sadness, well donāt be the joker, be the one who looks on the bright side. Donāt deny the dark side, but be grateful for whatās on the bright side. And donāt feel like you canāt talk about the darkness. Thatās literally the most important part about healing from it. Thereās a difference between being positive and just plain acting like the pain doesnt exist between the the jokes. Itās okay to be funny and laugh, but the upmost important part of using humor to heal, is dealing with the sadness first. Donāt go straight into laughing about the pain. Let out the sadness first.
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Finn it is absolutely OK to vent other people especially when people want to help you you just donāt like letting people help you and it gets frustrating because itās like, Iām at your house almost everyday and Iām willing to help you and Iām willing to talk to you because I know how you feel about your therapist and going to go talk to them about things because youāre not comfortable with somebody youāre not close with knowing personal shit
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But Iām here and Iāve been here for so long and youāre not letting me help
