I have a serious problem tbh
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I sympathize with a lot of people who people don’t like. Because people never care to hear the bad guys side of the story but honestly sometimes its not their fault that they are the way they are.
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@only-finneas Yeah, and that’s really an important thing to take into consideration, the feelings for a disliked person. To understand what happened in order for them to end up the way they are is nothing less important than anybody else that needs that sympathy.
It’s like saying if someone, a bully, was born a bully - they obviously didn’t inherit that from anyone, but rather that aspect was influenced by what others may have done to them. Maybe it was their way of defense that just stuck with them.
And I do agree, it certainly isn’t their fault - they need to be cared about, and to be understood by people who know how to sympathize with them. -
@only-finneas I don’t think it’s a serious problem - if anything, there needs to be more individuals that need to sympathize to fully understand why that person is that person. Then the other can openly talk about it more, even.
For you do spread that empathy yourself to these people is really good honestly. -
It isn’t a problem as hearing both sides of the story is the way to go. If you are neutral (like me) and you see drama happening, It’s best to hear both sides of the story and reflecting both sides with the truth which becomes sole building block of then voicing your opinion at the end.
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same but no one understands
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@only-finneas I feel that. That’s why I’m were I’m at right now.