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yall are not special bc youre gay- move tf onnnnn. youre trans? its not that big a deal. i cant stand people who rrvolve their whole life around the fact of being gqy. as a joke? okay whatever because i do that. but you do not have to bring up the fact that youre bi in every conversation. being gay is a part of your identity, not your whole identity. and its so fucking annoying when people in the LGBTQIA+ community cneter their life around it because lets be real. most of the world is apart of the community in some way. me? im trans and unlabeled. my mom is bisexual. my dad is aromantic. i know people that are trans that are straight. people that are straight that are aroace. like its not something special and dont make a big deal about it. its okay to be straight, its okay to be cisgender.its okay to have older morals, dont get mad bc someonw doesnt like the LGBT community. its a fairly new thing that people want to force other people to accept but its just not gonna happen. and thats comppletely fine.your grandparents may be confused, your teachers nay be confused. as long as people still love you, its okay if they dont support.
storytime, my grandma was at a store, i was yhere with her. the cashier was wearing a they/them pin but they were feminine present so my grandma assumed they were a female. my grandma said miss and the cashier went off callling her a homophpbe, a transphobe and a bitch. yes she was fired but still.
my grandmas 73, shes older. shes open to that, but she doesnt know all that yet. dhe misgenders and deadnames me a lot but shes confused and she always feels like she has to apologize all the time but i tell her its okay. because older people have experiences like that. and yes, this ties into make gay your whole identity. if you find your pronouns at age 15, for 15 years youve gone by another set of pronouns and a different name, and people arent gonna automatically get it.
i found out i was a he/him at age 12 and startee going by it in family at 13. i dont expect them to get it, and it doesnt really matter because i know who i am and im someone outside of the fact im gay lmao.
and ik im gonna get a lot of shit for this but uh.moral of the story: dont be a dick about being gay/trans
thank you for your time <3
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and, just as you have the right to support LGBT someone has the right not to and thats okay, as long ss they arent calling you slurs and making fun of you. cancel cukture is so stupid because its your right to have an opinion, regardless of whether i agree or not. and its something im working on being better about. its your opinion, not the common tiktok opinion. and im friends with someone who doesnt support, becsude of her religion. she gets a lot of backlash for it but its religion, she cant control what religion she believes in until shes 18 becsuse of her parents being fanatics. like and its annoying for her because she literally cant support. so yeah
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ONCE AGAIN, YOU ARE TUNING INTO STRAIGHT FACTS WITH FINNEAS
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@maybenot-finneas real cause gay isn’t a personality trait and it’s honestly fucking annoying to turn it into one
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But the thing is parents don’t really know what gay, lesbian,bi-sexual etc. For example my mom things lesbian is gay or bi- sexual is gay and sometimes I have to correct her my bigger cousins and me are all bi. And there’s not really shame in that.
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@maybenot-finneas Based.
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next we need to talk about how some people over-state the fact they’re gay, (including you + targeted)
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@Calistaa yeah- ik im working on it
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@maybenot-finneas never said i was perfect, im far from it, most of its bad habits from being around people ._.
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@maybenot-finneas said in Addressing This Again:
if you find your pronouns at age 15, for 15 years youve gone by another set of pronouns and a different name, and people arent gonna automatically get it.
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act ly… This is precisely what I was thinking when people complain about people calling them a “deadname” or a different gender after just deciding this stuff. The world can’t bend to you the moment you decide. -
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