Im scared :(

[A Former User]

I’m scared about the future, all my friends will be going to a different school and I’m gonna have to do everything on my own when I’m older, I won’t know how to cook and idk about my driving license, I just wish I could stay younger.

[A Former User]

why are you making all your words big, im not that dyslexic

[Shazz_]

@Aspuddle You shouldn’t worry about the future that much, trust me :)
Once you’re older, you know how things go and what to do because you gain that knowledge over time, rather than right now because it’s easier to worry about it, but don’t be scared, because you have a lot of time

[A Former User]

Shazz_ I just asked my mum to rate the difficulty of being an adult and she said 9 lmao
So now I’m more scared

[Shazz_]

@Aspuddle Everyone has their own interpretation of what being an adult is. Being an adult comes with a lot of responsibilities, but nonetheless you can go about that in any way - ways that you feel are most comfortable and stress-free :)
Maybe your mom has something going on, but it won’t be scary when your grown ^^

[A Former User]

Shazz_ I mean, what about being pregnant and having to do periods?

[A Former User]

@Aspuddle said in Im scared :(:

I mean, what about being pregnant and having to do periods?

shazz is a boy, dont ask him that, its not like he would know

[A Former User]

@1zzylmao I wish i was a boy

[Shazz_]

@Aspuddle It would be your choice whether you’d want to get pregnant - that can be something that you decide on your own, so you could choose to have that responsibility in your life.
Periods are normal, you shouldn’t worry. Although it is somewhat of an inconvenience, you’ll be alright at the end :)

[Shazz_]

@1zzylmao I’m all in for explaining things as much as I can, haha :)

[A Former User]

Shazz_ wait, so do people have to do sex to get pregnant? Like having intercourse?

[Shazz_]

@Aspuddle Okay, no more detail if your going that far, haha.
I’m sure you understand now - life makes itself where you decide to take it :)

[A Former User]

Shazz_ Okay, sorry lol

[Shazz_]

@Aspuddle No, it’s okay

[A Former User]

Shazz_ kay. But is it true?

[Shazz_]

@Aspuddle What you previously said, yes.

[A Former User]

Shazz_ YAY
Then I’ll avoid having sex.
okay okay ill stop acting like a bitch

[A Former User]

…H-

[A Former User]

@Aspuddle Adulting is hard but it also gets easier to handle the role when you actually mature and gain confidence that you know what you’re doing. You’ll have plenty of practice till you need to go out in the world. So there’s not much to worry about at a young age.

[TheGoreDude848]

@Aspuddle Trust me that becoming an adult might be a hard time, When you’re in school I tell you to study really hard and then you can have a talk with anyone to start practicing the things you will make in the future.