Trans female here, AMA
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@alex Have you underwent surgery, or are you planning on to?
If so, what is it like, if I can ask.
And is a trans female originally a biological male, and vice versa?
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I have not undergone surgery (Iโm still 17, and thereโs no way I can afford gender-affirming surgery lol)
Iโve heard the surgery itself isnโt too bad, canโt speak for myself since I havenโt had it. Although, there are a few different ones, canโt discuss them here because rules. :p
Trans female is born male, transitioning to female.
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@alex Okay that actually clears up a lot
What made you feel this way, and why do you feel uncomfortable about your bio gender?
to be honest, my trans-era before accepting my fate and finding other alternatives, I wanted to be a guy because of the horrible pains of being a bio-female
of course, trans femaleโs donโt really have the issues of periods
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Opinions on women?
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it would honestly be easier to explain over voice, but Iโll try to explain later through text if youโd like (Iโm a bit tired right now) sorry D:
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@alex I agree
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Oof.
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@The-Watcher Bonjour
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@alex Ohio!
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@The-Watcher ๐ฑ
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@alex
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@alex
How confident are you in your transition? Do you think as you and your environment change that you would be more or less confident? -
@MrTree
Iโm actually quite confident! Iโve been on HRT for about 7 months, and my estrogen levels are exceeding my testosterone levels by a lot. I see my dysphoria worsening or getting better dependent on my location. For instance, I feel absolutely amazing at school, but horrible when Iโm near my grandparents, which is more of a generational thing.
This is genuinely the first time Iโve ever had this question asked! Also, sorry if my answer isnโt exactly what you were looking for. If it wasnโt, just let me know <3
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@alex
It is actually what I was asking lol. Do you ever see that confidence changing with your age though? Like as you go through college and maybe into your adulthood, do you think youโd ever wish you could go back? Have you ever wished that before? -
@MrTree
Sweet!
I havenโt had any thoughts about โgoing backโ, and I donโt really see myself having those thoughts. Growing up, I never had a father figure, soโฆI donโt really know how to do male stuff properly. xD
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@alex
Thatโs very interesting! Do you think it would it be different if you ever had a good male figure in your life? -
@MrTree
i think it might have gone differently, but I feel like I would have still ended up experimenting with my identity/sexual orientation at some point. The possibilities are endless.
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@alex
Fair enough lol. Would you rather you had just been born as the other gender or do you feel its part of your identity to have transitioned? -
@MrTree
I donโt see being trans as a prominent trait of my personality or identity as a whole. Just a homoromantic tomboy who wants to have some fun (not like that) and live her life :p
Forgot to mention - I have wished that I was born female before, but Iโm not really sure if Iโd actually want that.
Sorry for the delayed response, just woke up from my rest.
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