dating on mpp/mppc/the internet in general.

[finn.in.outer.space.]

not a moderator topic but rather me coming to you guys as another user of this site, be careful who you date online. i’m not saying don’t date anyone here or that everyone here is a horrible person because obviously that isn’t true, but i am saying be careful of who you date here. i’m gonna go into a couple different things i’m gonna urge you to watch here, but just overall, be careful.

age gaps. don’t date anyone that is over 2 years younger than you, and really even 2 years is a stretch. granted when you’re older 4-5 year age gaps like 30 and 35 aren’t bad, but 12 and 17 sounds a whole lot different, so does 11 and 16, 14 and 19, etc. even 13 and 16 sounds pretty bad because it’s a lack of maturity there, theres a HUGE gap in your physical, emotional, and mental maturity from when you’re 13 and when you’re 16, from when you’re 11 to when you’re 16, from when you’re 12 to when you’re 15, so honestly, those don’t even belong together in a relationship, because usually those kinds of relationships are someone trying to control you.

emotional/mental maturity. if you can’t handle someones emotions and you know they have issues with them you shouldn’t be dating them. and granted, no they shouldn’t be taking their emotions out on you, but you also have to learn when enough is enough, which is a lot easier said than done because i’ve been there. i’m pretty sure i’ve made it heavily clear that i’ve been in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship before, and genuinely, leaving is a lot harder than it sounds to people who aren’t there because when you end those kinds of relationships, it’s only the good moments that you put an end to, but if you need someone to listen to you or help you get out my dm’s are always open and i’m here for you.

intentions. we all know by now that not everyone has your best interest at heart and not everyone has the same intentions in a relationship, you should be able to guess what i mean by this. and if someone has an intention in a relationship that you’re not ready for, don’t ever and i mean EVER let this person force you into those things, it’s not okay in any way, shape or form. and if you’ve said no and they are still trying then you need to let someone know.

pasts. i get it, everyone changes. people definitely deserve second chances, but it’s not smart of you to test if someone changes, it is not your job to be the test subject of someones changing, if someone has a history of being passed around like a vape in a high school bathroom, then why would you date them? people lie, you have to learn that you shouldn’t trust everyone when they say that they’re a “changed person.” and yes, i get that hope that someones changed and having high hopes, because i have the same issue, but sometimes you have to remind yourself that not everyone changes, and that change is not immediate. so yes, look into someones past and make sure they’re not crazy or anything before you date them because the past does matter, because you shouldn’t just let everything go.

anyways, thats all i have for you guys because my fingers are tired, but please, stay safe and make smart choices!!

• Finn 💕

[A Former User]

mfw a38

[finn.in.outer.space.]

@Flandre-Scarlet you guys are good im talking about the weird ones

[A Former User]

@finneass People’s intentions in a 2+ year age gap relationship is… xD always questionable. A lot of kids these days lack dignity and honesty so it’s hard to ever believe their intentions are ever pure at heart.

[finn.in.outer.space.]

@Duchess exactly, because it’s like what are you at your big age doing with someone that much younger than you

[daniel176]

@finneass let my brain dial up so i can read this book 😱😨😭😭

[A Former User]

At this point people really dont care about age gap and other key points of what not to have on a online relationship. All they want is nudes and other stuff.

[A Former User]

@finneass i mean ive been online dating for like a while. me dating in person finally is something that i havent done in like years so me online dating is just something im used to tbh

[A Former User]

@Krov said in dating on mpp/mppc/the internet in general.:

All they want is nudes and other stuff.

They gon’ want the wrong ones from the wrong people.

[finn.in.outer.space.]

𝜗𝜚 rylie said in dating on mpp/mppc/the internet in general.:

me online dating is just something im used to tbh

yeah i did it for awhile, i probably won’t anymore tbh

[A Former User]

@finneass makes sense