dating on mpp/mppc/the internet in general.
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not a moderator topic but rather me coming to you guys as another user of this site, be careful who you date online. iâm not saying donât date anyone here or that everyone here is a horrible person because obviously that isnât true, but i am saying be careful of who you date here. iâm gonna go into a couple different things iâm gonna urge you to watch here, but just overall, be careful.
age gaps. donât date anyone that is over 2 years younger than you, and really even 2 years is a stretch. granted when youâre older 4-5 year age gaps like 30 and 35 arenât bad, but 12 and 17 sounds a whole lot different, so does 11 and 16, 14 and 19, etc. even 13 and 16 sounds pretty bad because itâs a lack of maturity there, theres a HUGE gap in your physical, emotional, and mental maturity from when youâre 13 and when youâre 16, from when youâre 11 to when youâre 16, from when youâre 12 to when youâre 15, so honestly, those donât even belong together in a relationship, because usually those kinds of relationships are someone trying to control you.
emotional/mental maturity. if you canât handle someones emotions and you know they have issues with them you shouldnât be dating them. and granted, no they shouldnât be taking their emotions out on you, but you also have to learn when enough is enough, which is a lot easier said than done because iâve been there. iâm pretty sure iâve made it heavily clear that iâve been in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship before, and genuinely, leaving is a lot harder than it sounds to people who arenât there because when you end those kinds of relationships, itâs only the good moments that you put an end to, but if you need someone to listen to you or help you get out my dmâs are always open and iâm here for you.
intentions. we all know by now that not everyone has your best interest at heart and not everyone has the same intentions in a relationship, you should be able to guess what i mean by this. and if someone has an intention in a relationship that youâre not ready for, donât ever and i mean EVER let this person force you into those things, itâs not okay in any way, shape or form. and if youâve said no and they are still trying then you need to let someone know.
pasts. i get it, everyone changes. people definitely deserve second chances, but itâs not smart of you to test if someone changes, it is not your job to be the test subject of someones changing, if someone has a history of being passed around like a vape in a high school bathroom, then why would you date them? people lie, you have to learn that you shouldnât trust everyone when they say that theyâre a âchanged person.â and yes, i get that hope that someones changed and having high hopes, because i have the same issue, but sometimes you have to remind yourself that not everyone changes, and that change is not immediate. so yes, look into someones past and make sure theyâre not crazy or anything before you date them because the past does matter, because you shouldnât just let everything go.
anyways, thats all i have for you guys because my fingers are tired, but please, stay safe and make smart choices!!
- Finn đ
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mfw a38
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@Flandre-Scarlet you guys are good im talking about the weird ones
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@finneass Peopleâs intentions in a 2+ year age gap relationship is⊠xD always questionable. A lot of kids these days lack dignity and honesty so itâs hard to ever believe their intentions are ever pure at heart.
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@Duchess exactly, because itâs like what are you at your big age doing with someone that much younger than you
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@finneass let my brain dial up so i can read this book đ±đšđđ
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At this point people really dont care about age gap and other key points of what not to have on a online relationship. All they want is nudes and other stuff.
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@finneass i mean ive been online dating for like a while. me dating in person finally is something that i havent done in like years so me online dating is just something im used to tbh
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@Krov said in dating on mpp/mppc/the internet in general.:
All they want is nudes and other stuff.
They gonâ want the wrong ones from the wrong people.
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đđ rylie said in dating on mpp/mppc/the internet in general.:
me online dating is just something im used to tbh
yeah i did it for awhile, i probably wonât anymore tbh
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@finneass makes sense
