Going through my stuff.
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My parents took all my writing books and went through them. But they hate it when I go through their stuff. How do they think I feel?
So I was caught doing something [Not sex or anything sus, just eating in my room] and so When I cleaned up, they went through my trash and I got yelled at, So I wrote in y book on what happened but my father took my book from me and said “You don’t need this.” And I said “It has all my writing!” But He took all my shit and Then They went through all my stuff. I heard from their room door. They hate it when I go through their stuff. But they took all my writing books and went through them. How do they think I feel? It’s my privacy. What the hell. But anyway
Is it right to go through your child’s stuff?
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@Lenore_Offical_From_Nevermore who what the hell? Are they out of their fucking mind? No seriously. They hate it when you go through their stuff, but do it at their children? You would feel the same. I mean yeah you can go through your childrens stuff, but only when they ask for permission or dont take it away
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@Lenore_Offical_From_Nevermore Hypocritical assholes. Seriously, why are some parents so strict and aggressive towards their own kids?
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Honestly fuck 'em, I’d go through their room, toss all their valuables in the trash, and if they wanna kick you out, let them lmao.
Like I said, it’s illegal to throw your minor out of your house and can be charged with child endangerment.
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Wubbrle the amazing Wubble Exactly like they say they have privacy stuff, but Get mad when we say we do. Like dude.
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@The4thFemC Exactly my point. Parents think We’re hiding stuff from them, No. We just want privacy.
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@Lenore_Offical_From_Nevermore I really think you should go Stewie against them, those parents are just probably just on 2 legs-standing-youtube-ass Parents
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@Namira
I swear I have been writing all my shit on leaving in my books, No wonder my mom said I was getting out of her house. I don’t understand, What if I just end up staying? I mean, She seems like she wants me to, but I’m not gonna sit here and let my stuff get blurred out like i’m 5. I might say I’ll leave. I’m just scared. -
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@Lenore_Offical_From_Nevermore But listen. They already have done enough bullshit in your life, those other things were brutal, and this too…? what is wrong with them? Just tell them what you feel about them. At this Point I wouldn’t stand a chance keeping those hidden things in the mind
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@Lenore_Offical_From_Nevermore Just go to your nearest police station.
She can lie all she wants but if she’s saying she’s kicking you out, record her saying it. Can’t be “we have no proof” then, huh? -
@Lenore_Offical_From_Nevermore And also, y’know. BEING TREATED LIKE A NORMAL KID. Like, it’s your responsibility to parent, set your kids up on a good path, build a loving bond with them. Doing this shit betrays the trust your kids have of you and makes them feel unsafe and unloved. Sorry, I just despise horrible parents.
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@Namira said in Going through my stuff.:
@Lenore_Offical_From_Nevermore Just go to your nearest police station.
There’s no nearby that I know of
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Oh, and if you have injuries, it’d be better for you, you can show it to the police and accuse them of child abuse
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@Lenore_Offical_From_Nevermore use google maps or something else to see the nearest police station
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@Namira I saw this post JUST now xD
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@Namira
Some of the bruises being from School:
But Sure I’ll try
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@Namira And also hope the police takes it seriously.
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@The4thFemC Yk whats better than that? I HOPE THE COPS ARREST THEM FOR CHILD ABUSE
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@Lenore_Offical_From_Nevermore said in Going through my stuff.:
Is it right to go through your child’s stuff?
unless you have viable reason to (e.g. being told/catching they do illegal things, constant lying, etc.), no. by doing that your kids won’t fucking trust you and they’ll just become even more sneaky. trust is a 2 way street which means your kid should be able to leave their stuff around you or give you their stuff without fear of you going through their stuff, just as you should be able to trust them.