• Vent Category Etiquette

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    We want this category to be a safe space for members of the community, but we also want other members to feel safe reading these at the same time. In order to keep this peace, I figured some general guidelines may help out. So here’s some general etiquette to follow in this category. Consider these kind of like the rules for this category and follow them.

    Do not attack anyone for their views or opinions. This category is for people to vent and get out feelings, not for political/social revolutions or arguments. Try to keep that stuff out of topics here as much as possible.

    Do not make jokes about someones trauma, experiences, or vents in general. This should be obvious but you know, sometimes we have to spell things out. Do not joke about anything someone says in this category. People are sharing their rough moments with you willingly so it’s rude to make jokes about it. We get it, dark humor exists. But this category is not the place for it. People are talking about serious issues here sometimes and dark humor has no place here.

    Try to keep trigger warnings as much as possible. Use the tag and add it into the title Trigger warnings help to keep peoples mental health safe here. So if you mention topics such as suicide, self-harm, or other dark topics make sure to put TW and whatever triggers are in the topic in the title, as well as using the spoiler for detailed things just to keep everyone safe from seeing things that may be detailed in words of gore or other self harm topics. Generally, talking about or sending photos of self-harm or suicidal topics should be avoided but I get it, art is some peoples way of expressing themselves, and not everyone has the resources to be able to talk about their issues. But, due to the fact of this site not being 13+ and having people under teenage years as well as people in their teenage years and above having triggers, it’s best if topics of self harm and suicide are mentioned in DM’s to a trusted person or you could call the suicide hotline at 988, but MPPC is generally not the place to get the help that you need. If you need to talk to someone, my dm’s are always open and I’ll try to help to the best of my ability!

    Try to keep people on the communities names out of topics. If theres a situation you need to vent about that concerns a member of the community, come up with a fake name for this person in order to prevent drama on the community. Bringing peoples names into posts just leaves room for people to argue on vent posts. I get it, we don’t always get along on MPPC, no one always gets along. But, either generalize the post or use a fake name, and if you realize a post is about you, do not try to argue on that post. Keep it to DM’s. Arguments on posts will be locked ASAP.

    Do not say any slurs. I get it, sometimes you want to vent about people calling you things you dislike or that hurt you. But if you mention a slur, whether it be a racial slur or a slur used towards another group of people, censor it or say something like “[insert _ slur]” or “[_ slur]”. Slurs cause drama and in general should not be said. This includes but is not limited to: The R word, The F slur, The N word, The CC slur, you get the point.

    Don’t mention any sexual topics. While I get that sexual interactions may be a part of life, it shouldn’t be mentioned here due to underage members of this community being here. Any vent topics including anything explicitly stating anything about sex or anything related to that sort of thing will be deleted and will result in a mute. Remember that there are some things that just generally shouldn’t be added to vent topics on the internet, especially on a forum with no age limit. Talk about these things with people you trust or family members, not here.

    Use this category for the intended purpose. Don’t post any spam topics or anything that is not a vent. These topics will be locked/deleted at the choice of whatever staff members think is fit. We want to keep these categories as clean as possible and keep them in use of their original purpose. if you continue to make these topics, it will result in a mute or ban again at the discretion of staff.

    You get the point, basically. Use common sense and your good judgement to figure out if the things you’re posting should actually be posted on a forums site with children on it. If it isn’t something you’d tell an 8-10 year old, try to be as vague as possible with it. You’re welcome to vent and if you need someone I’m here to talk whenever I’m online. I’ll try to give the best advice I can if you need it, but if you just need to vent, I’m still here, and I’ll be glad to listen!

    Refer to the rules.

    Here’s a list of hotlines for if you need them(probably gonna gradually keep updating this):
    988 – Suicide Hotline, call or text
    741741 – Crisis Hotline, Text
    (800) 799-7233 – Domestic Violence Hotline, Call
    1-800-422-4453 – Child Abuse Hotline, Call

  • You need to talk?

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    finn.in.outer.space.F

    @Kumi I got it :)

  • You ever just cry so hard because you love her so much?

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    Stanley.Uris_S

    Please know Im making my own acc and this post will be deleted and I will post it on my acc.

  • Her.

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    Stanley.Uris_S

    Please know Im making my own acc and this post will be deleted and I will post it on my acc.

  • today feels weird

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    ok so i pulled an all nighter, wanted to stay awake for the whole day, then slept at 7am, waking up at 3pm, i feel hot, i feel pain, and i feel like im in a dream, and idk what to do, i’ve been feeling uncomfortable the whole day, and everything just feels off, the weathers terrible, there was barely anything to do, i dont know if i was just bored or tired but i really didnt like today, tomorrow might be a bit worse due to the weather, because usually i feel uneasy when its like REALLY cloudy, so it might be much worse because of it, goddamnit i need someone to help me

  • This is kinda of a vent but idk

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    RavenR

    OY.SSTUFF

    Zamn cuh, I didn’t know there was an abbreviation for discord.

  • My Nightmare I had

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    I just had a horrible nightmare… So as you may know, I ran away from my bio mom just the begining of this year to live with my bio dad. Hes better, more supportive, and hasn’t caused me any issues. Me, him, and his wife all agree that she abused me… I was mostly just blind to her attacks and saw it as tough love or a lesson.
    The dream was about me running away again, but it happened differently. Instead of my dad picking me up, I ran away without telling anyone. I walked for about 7 miles before I reached a school that was open on tour, I walked inside and asked the ladies in there to help me hide just incase a strange lady decided to come in looking for me. They did. I also had an old phone she had given me but taken away. I had two phones in this dream, one my mom gave me, and one my dad gave me. She took the one my dad gave me, deleted discord and snap so I wouldn’t try to call him and left my old phone. She also left the house. I took that as an opportunity to take the old phone and run away.

    At the school I realized my phone was dead from not being used for so long. I tried asking the students and teachers if they have any C type chargers and no body had one. So I went back home and realized she came back home too and left the phone my dad gave me on her bed charging. She also left the house again to look for me as she found out I ran away. I took the phone, it was on 78 percent. I went back to the school for the Wi-Fi and I called my dad on discord. Called him once. He didn’t answer. Called him twice. He didn’t answer. Called him three times he answered. It was like 3 in the morning and he was still sleeping but he answered. "Yeah!? " I said "dad it’s me. " he said "Oh hey sweets! How are you? Why are you calling so early? " I told him I ran away. I cried and said I wanted him to pick me up and that I was scared. I could feel my heart racing and my breath getting heavy. I also told him (forgot to add) that my step brother (my dads wife’s son) tried telling me to go back home and my dad said "That is very unlike him. " and he said he would pick me up but I’d had to find somewhere to sleep cause it was going to take a while. Thats when I woke up. My heart was racing. Breathing still heavy. I was scared to open my eyes cause I thought I was in the place that harmed me. (My moms house) then I realized I ran away already and that I was at my dads house and that I was safe. I was still hesitant on opening my eyes but I did it.

    That was the most realistic, horrifying, and traumatizing dream I’ve had this month.

    If you wanna know how my mom treated me and how she affected me and had me run away from her, check out this post
    https://mpp.community/forum/topic/60952/all-the-posts-i-ve-made-about-my-mom-vent-timeline/2?_=1753680643102

  • worst feeling

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    when you tell someone you like about something you’re excited about and then they respond with a ‘joke’ that’s basically just borderline mocking and you realize everything else you were going to tell them they would also make fun of and then you regret telling them it and feel this weird senese of unease and just dont want to continue the conversation

    ‘i dont understand it so i’m going to make fun of it instead of being respectful’ mentality is NOT it 💔

  • i think my friend just killed himself on call. (TW MENTIONS OF SUICIDE)

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    BlakeB

    h4lfie I hope he’s ok-

  • i dont like being involved.

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    soverignwoverign12309S

    every day, it’s something, drama, vents, and i always have to be included, i want to help, but at the same time i dont also wanna live with the stress of being included WITH their stress as im the one helping the person that NEEDS that help.

  • "Bullying doesn't affect me!"

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    Siloxa922S

    Until you feel absolutely insecure about doing normal stuff around people, like going to the toilet, EATING, DRINKING. i just keep my head down, think i stand out from everyone, i try to tell myself, ‘yeah everyones doing their own thing’ but ONE little peek at me gets me all embarrased, to the point I just wanna sit down and do nothing, starving myself, only if it means I won’t feel like this.

  • What do I do? (Vent/Advice)

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    BlakeB

    Raven I’d just draw alone tbh (ts reminds me of early mpp 🥀…)

  • uh. [trigger warning.]

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    soverignwoverign12309S

    i dont know what to put here lmao that seems really like, traumatic, god damnit you’re parents are like, fully psychopathic, grandparents, siblings, like HUH? try to take some time to acknowledge and accept your feelings, talk to someone you trust about how you’re feeling, like me, do some nice Activities that you enjoy, for example making Kandi bracelets, but also make sure you eat well, exercise, and try your best to sleep, no judging but the way i sleep is that i find a VERY comfort bit, then i pretend i sleep with my fav character, as in cuddly way, remember that none of this is your fault, its their fault, so please don’t blame yourself for something YOU didn’t do.

  • overstimulate d

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    soverignwoverign12309S

    i dont know what to put here lmao it sounds as if you have been going through a hard time at home, stress and sleep deprivation from camp, then found out your personal space being destroyed by your mum cleaning ur room and your grandparents being present, cuz it does seem this made you feel overwhelmed, considering the fact you were called rude for saying hi and wanting to fix your own bed yourself, and you also said you felt uncomfortable when your mother hugged you, and i get it, i really do jordan, obviously if you wanna vent to me, you can, only when im not sleeping my ass off 😭

  • An Abandoned Building in the middle of a City.

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    Siloxa922S

    of course, something might’ve happened to that building, and it stands out, atleast does it? does it stand out from all the other good buildings? now its owned as the abandoned building in the middle of a busy city, but, this post isnt about an abandoned building in the middle of city.

  • Storytime on why I took a break (TW ; Mention of SH & Suicide)

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    Stanley.Uris_S

    Siloxa I mean true, ilysm /p

  • Massive TW.

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    Siloxa are you okay? I’m here if you need to vent or anything

  • Just some.. thing. I don't really know.

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    KayaRoseWhoK

    𝜗𝜚 rylie your not loseing me

  • Put a finger down if ...

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    Stanley.Uris_S

    AND then date her bsf while she’s dating you !

  • just a quick thing before I go to bed

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    sometimes I dont want to comfort people, especially if it’s about like serious topics, I don’t really want to be the one involved otherwise… well Im not that comfortable to go into other things but sometimes I really dont know what to say like what if I say the wrong things or js overall accidentally ruin their life more? i dont know, but Im not trying to be mean its just sometimes I don’t know what to say or how to help because I’m not actually good at being a full on therapist for other people, but I’ll js see how I go, haha…

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