• Vent Category Etiquette

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    We want this category to be a safe space for members of the community, but we also want other members to feel safe reading these at the same time. In order to keep this peace, I figured some general guidelines may help out. So here’s some general etiquette to follow in this category. Consider these kind of like the rules for this category and follow them.

    Do not attack anyone for their views or opinions. This category is for people to vent and get out feelings, not for political/social revolutions or arguments. Try to keep that stuff out of topics here as much as possible.

    Do not make jokes about someones trauma, experiences, or vents in general. This should be obvious but you know, sometimes we have to spell things out. Do not joke about anything someone says in this category. People are sharing their rough moments with you willingly so it’s rude to make jokes about it. We get it, dark humor exists. But this category is not the place for it. People are talking about serious issues here sometimes and dark humor has no place here.

    Try to keep trigger warnings as much as possible. Use the tag and add it into the title Trigger warnings help to keep peoples mental health safe here. So if you mention topics such as suicide, self-harm, or other dark topics make sure to put TW and whatever triggers are in the topic in the title, as well as using the spoiler for detailed things just to keep everyone safe from seeing things that may be detailed in words of gore or other self harm topics. Generally, talking about or sending photos of self-harm or suicidal topics should be avoided but I get it, art is some peoples way of expressing themselves, and not everyone has the resources to be able to talk about their issues. But, due to the fact of this site not being 13+ and having people under teenage years as well as people in their teenage years and above having triggers, it’s best if topics of self harm and suicide are mentioned in DM’s to a trusted person or you could call the suicide hotline at 988, but MPPC is generally not the place to get the help that you need. If you need to talk to someone, my dm’s are always open and I’ll try to help to the best of my ability!

    Try to keep people on the communities names out of topics. If theres a situation you need to vent about that concerns a member of the community, come up with a fake name for this person in order to prevent drama on the community. Bringing peoples names into posts just leaves room for people to argue on vent posts. I get it, we don’t always get along on MPPC, no one always gets along. But, either generalize the post or use a fake name, and if you realize a post is about you, do not try to argue on that post. Keep it to DM’s. Arguments on posts will be locked ASAP.

    Do not say any slurs. I get it, sometimes you want to vent about people calling you things you dislike or that hurt you. But if you mention a slur, whether it be a racial slur or a slur used towards another group of people, censor it or say something like “[insert _ slur]” or “[_ slur]”. Slurs cause drama and in general should not be said. This includes but is not limited to: The R word, The F slur, The N word, The CC slur, you get the point.

    Don’t mention any sexual topics. While I get that sexual interactions may be a part of life, it shouldn’t be mentioned here due to underage members of this community being here. Any vent topics including anything explicitly stating anything about sex or anything related to that sort of thing will be deleted and will result in a mute. Remember that there are some things that just generally shouldn’t be added to vent topics on the internet, especially on a forum with no age limit. Talk about these things with people you trust or family members, not here.

    Use this category for the intended purpose. Don’t post any spam topics or anything that is not a vent. These topics will be locked/deleted at the choice of whatever staff members think is fit. We want to keep these categories as clean as possible and keep them in use of their original purpose. if you continue to make these topics, it will result in a mute or ban again at the discretion of staff.

    You get the point, basically. Use common sense and your good judgement to figure out if the things you’re posting should actually be posted on a forums site with children on it. If it isn’t something you’d tell an 8-10 year old, try to be as vague as possible with it. You’re welcome to vent and if you need someone I’m here to talk whenever I’m online. I’ll try to give the best advice I can if you need it, but if you just need to vent, I’m still here, and I’ll be glad to listen!

    Refer to the rules.

    Here’s a list of hotlines for if you need them(probably gonna gradually keep updating this):
    988 – Suicide Hotline, call or text
    741741 – Crisis Hotline, Text
    (800) 799-7233 – Domestic Violence Hotline, Call
    1-800-422-4453 – Child Abuse Hotline, Call

  • You need to talk?

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    @Kumi I got it :)

  • please stop.

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    Then don’t take them as a friend.

  • im so fucking tired

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    i dont know why, well i do, but my mental states been wrecked lately, ive been getting more like, selfaware and just more apologetic, crying more during nights, feeling like i fucked up, and i hate it, i hate it so fucking much. i feel like ive been fucking everything much
    i hate it
    i hate it
    i hate it
    i want it to end

  • Jesus.

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  • Canon event.

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    BlacknwhitepearlssB

    ♤ Hail :p ♢ just so everybody knows this isn’t about my online friends so don’t worry :))

  • idk

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    your_search_history_scares_meY

    it’s getting so bad that i’m turning to c.ai for something to vent to

  • bro

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    [404]JerryNotFound[

    having sisters is the worst

  • Nervous — The Neighbourhood

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    Maybe I shouldn’t try to be perfect
    I confess, I’m obsessed with the surface
    In the end, if I fall or if I get it all
    I just hope that it’s worth it
    Last year I fell flat on my face
    And last month I knew somethin’ should change
    Last week I started over again
    Ask me and I’ll tell you how I’ve been
    Mm, don’t get me started
    You’ve got me nervous to speak
    So I just won’t say anything at all
    I’ve got an urge to release
    And you keep tellin’ me to hold on
    You’ve got me nervous to move
    So I just won’t give anything to you
    You got me turnin’ all around to be who you need me to
    Should I be quiet? Uh
    Come on, be silent, uh
    You know I’m tryin’, so don’t say nothin’, uh
    Tell me you trust me, and
    Kiss me and hug me, yeah
    Well, I would do anything for ya
    You just gotta love me, and-
    I got an itch in my throat
    I don’t know which way to go
    I keep on switchin’, I know
    I need a different approach
    It’s all because I wanna show you that I’m so capable
    You’ve got me nervous to speak
    So I just won’t say anything at all
    I’ve got an urge to release
    And you keep tellin’ me to hold on
    You’ve got me nervous to move
    So I just won’t give anything to you
    You got me turnin’ all around to be who you need me to
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word, be quiet
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word
    Hush, baby, when you do, I just get hurt
    Come on, baby, don’t you hurt me anymore
    I’m not the same way that I was before
    I got goosebumps all over me
    When you’re around, hard for me to breathe
    Come on, baby, don’t you do that anymore, mhm
    It’s not like the days have never felt so short
    My nerves, they give me a sign
    Tell me I’m not fine, mm
    You’ve got me nervous to speak
    So I just won’t say anything at all
    I’ve got an urge to release
    And you keep tellin’ me to hold on
    You’ve got me nervous to move
    So I just won’t give anything to you
    You got me turnin’ all around to be who you need me to
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word, be quiet
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word
    Hush, baby, when you do, I just get hurt

  • I possibly might've had the worst dream in my life. [MAJOR TW!!]

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    Siloxa I’m sorry you dreamed that :(( sometimes dreams just happen for no reason :(

  • sleeping problems.

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    i have a love hate relationship with sleep, sometimes i love sleep, sometimes i love sleeping, but thats not usual, sleeping is just uncomfortable for me, more all noghters are pulled, but ehen i do sleep, its usually for 30 minutes and then for the rest of the day im like, sick, like the feeling to gag but no, im just groggy, and dont get me started on the paranoia or rage youre going through pulling all nighters, idk im just ruining my life bc sleeps and shit are just too hard to do bc with timezones its hard to sleep ehen youre talking to your friends (this isnt supposed to be targetted dont be guilty dw) sometimes i hate sleeping sm

  • i hate my dad. [possible tw]

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    I don’t hate him because he abuses me, i dont hate him because he sa’s me-

    I hate him because he isn’t there.

    He isn’t a father, he just, lives with us. Moderates all day because he’s so sure it’ll come into something more and he’ll get paid six figures. But it gets to a point where you start to worry if money is even worth it. If his chromebook gets a low battery warning he starts scrambling looking for a child as if a device dying will cause his entire bloodline to perish. Though honestly, i dont think he’d care if it did by now.

    He’s too sucked up trying to figure out which trumpie lawyer he’s supposed to moderate today because OBVIOUSLY taking your child to something that’s ending for the last time this year is not as important as pasting a link in chat and raiding out a stream.

    just a few days ago, when my cold was starting, i was getting very stressed and when i get stressed i get nauseous. We’re a three minute drive away from home. But OH NO, he has to tell all his friends on rumble he’ll be wight back and he has to paste a link that takes five minutes as his OWN FUCKING CHILD sits next to him in the passenger seat with a bEEF JERKY BAG as a barf bag because he cant get home. I was literally shaking and whimpering like some sort of scared dog because 1 i hate being nauseous and 2 hed bitch about it if i did spew. ‘can you wait five minutes i need to paste a link’ I SHOULDNT HAVE HELD IT IN AND FUCKING THREW UP ON HIM, SEE HOW HE FUCKING LIKES THAT. AND YKW HE DOES. HE FUCKING STOPS AT THE GAS STATION. I ALMOST WALKEDD IN THERE AND BOUGHT A SNACK OR SOME SHIT LIKE THE FUCK YOU MEAN YOU’RE GETTING GAS AM I NOT IMPORTANT TO YOU OR SOMETHING???

    I CANT RELY ON HIM FOR SHIT, EITHER.

    ‘get your dad to do it’ basically means ‘it’s not gonna happen and you have todo it yourself’

    two nights ago, i wanted grapes at like 10:pm. my mom says dad can get me grapes
    it gets to like 12 am and i look in the fridge and turn to my dad [whos literally sitting on the couch ‘moderating’ like 6 feet away] and i note ‘man, i’m not sure if there’s grapes, can you check?’ and he says he will [now he SWEARS he said i should check but whatever]
    1:am no grapes. [speaking of to ask for somethnig when i dont know how i just note shit like that my parents are used to it im just adhd what can i say im not funny] so i fall asleep and i tell my dad in the morning around 10 am. so- um. it got to 12 and he threw a pissy fit when i asked muttering something about me being ‘annoying’ because i wanted gRAPES???

    i got the grapes myself because obviously the man of the house can’t for his BY THE WAY VERY MUCH SO SICK CHILD. LIKE I WAS SNIFFLY SWEATY HOT DISORIENTED THE WORKS.

    and my dad always does shit like this and claims he misheard me or uses his adhd as a crutch like ‘o-oh, it’s just becase i have horrible time management!!!’ but it’s gotten to the point where if someone asks ‘why are you so late??’ i just say ‘my dad.’ and they instantly get it because i can never be on time if he takes me somewhere. I didn’t even KNOW it was POSSIBLE for your dad to fix something straight away without nagging him a lot as a kid. ‘dad my leapad ran out of batteries:(’ ‘oh damn that sucks’ ‘can you- put batteries in it?’ ‘yeah five minutes’ 30 minutes later ‘oh dad thanks!’ goes back to get leapad ‘n-no, i didn’t put batteries in it yet.’

    like that was such a normal in my house i genuinely got shocked as a little lad when ppl told me they just get shit done??? like i didnt know that was POSSIBLE but its just because my fat lard of a father cant do shit

    forgot to mention but like- he gets genuinely annoyed at me when i tell him i accedentally bled on something when im on my period. like i think hes sort of sexist or something because he doesnt support feminists, doesnt support abortion, doesn’t support divorce [makes sense because my mother still tolerates him and hasn’t left him yet, probably because of their religion i don’t know LMAO], doesn’t support like- 90% of womens 🍇 cases… bc like

    a few months ago i accidentally bled on my carpet, accident right?

    ‘dad can you help me get blood out of my carpet later? i accidental-’

    SIIGGHHHHH ‘ZOf, YOU cAn’T KEEP USIN THIS AS AN EXCUSE ANYMORE, ITS NOT CUTE.’

    apologies for bleeding against my will, you will begin to cough in five days ❤️

  • Got into a car crash recently. [MENTIONS OF DR#GS AND ALC]

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    Tenna!! oh… are you alright-? how’re you currently doing?

  • Her.

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    [404]JerryNotFound[

    ok, wasn’t deleted, but will be posted on here again .

  • Man, It really does hurt.

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    [404]JerryNotFound[

    It aches and hurts badly, Knowing you love someone that you know you can’t have.

  • Her. Again.

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    I Love Her So Bad That It Hurts. I Treat Her As If She’s Sacred. Like She’s The Only Thing In This Damn World That’s Pure And Worth Fighting For. If Loving Her Means I’m Breaking Myself, Then I’m Already Shattered, But I Don’t Care. Because She’s Not Just Someone I Like. She’s Like My Other Half. If I Can’t Hold Her, If I Can’t Look Into Her Eyes And Tell Her She’s Mine, Then I Don’t Wanna Exist. I’d Rather Fade Away Than Live Without Her. And If The World Tells Me I’m Crazy For Loving Her This Much, Then Fine. I’m Crazy. Because Loving Her Is The Only Truth I’ve Ever Known.

    (This reply was pre-typed, I didn’t feel like typing more thing after I posted this.)

  • im actually full on sobbing (TW MENTIONS OF SUICIDE)

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    What’s this about?

  • You ever just cry so hard because you love her so much?

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    Please know Im making my own acc and this post will be deleted and I will post it on my acc.

  • today feels weird

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    ok so i pulled an all nighter, wanted to stay awake for the whole day, then slept at 7am, waking up at 3pm, i feel hot, i feel pain, and i feel like im in a dream, and idk what to do, i’ve been feeling uncomfortable the whole day, and everything just feels off, the weathers terrible, there was barely anything to do, i dont know if i was just bored or tired but i really didnt like today, tomorrow might be a bit worse due to the weather, because usually i feel uneasy when its like REALLY cloudy, so it might be much worse because of it, goddamnit i need someone to help me

  • This is kinda of a vent but idk

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    @OY-SSTUFF

    Zamn cuh, I didn’t know there was an abbreviation for discord.

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