• Vent Category Etiquette

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    We want this category to be a safe space for members of the community, but we also want other members to feel safe reading these at the same time. In order to keep this peace, I figured some general guidelines may help out. So here’s some general etiquette to follow in this category. Consider these kind of like the rules for this category and follow them.

    Do not attack anyone for their views or opinions. This category is for people to vent and get out feelings, not for political/social revolutions or arguments. Try to keep that stuff out of topics here as much as possible.

    Do not make jokes about someones trauma, experiences, or vents in general. This should be obvious but you know, sometimes we have to spell things out. Do not joke about anything someone says in this category. People are sharing their rough moments with you willingly so it’s rude to make jokes about it. We get it, dark humor exists. But this category is not the place for it. People are talking about serious issues here sometimes and dark humor has no place here.

    Try to keep trigger warnings as much as possible. Use the tag and add it into the title Trigger warnings help to keep peoples mental health safe here. So if you mention topics such as suicide, self-harm, or other dark topics make sure to put TW and whatever triggers are in the topic in the title, as well as using the spoiler for detailed things just to keep everyone safe from seeing things that may be detailed in words of gore or other self harm topics. Generally, talking about or sending photos of self-harm or suicidal topics should be avoided but I get it, art is some peoples way of expressing themselves, and not everyone has the resources to be able to talk about their issues. But, due to the fact of this site not being 13+ and having people under teenage years as well as people in their teenage years and above having triggers, it’s best if topics of self harm and suicide are mentioned in DM’s to a trusted person or you could call the suicide hotline at 988, but MPPC is generally not the place to get the help that you need. If you need to talk to someone, my dm’s are always open and I’ll try to help to the best of my ability!

    Try to keep people on the communities names out of topics. If theres a situation you need to vent about that concerns a member of the community, come up with a fake name for this person in order to prevent drama on the community. Bringing peoples names into posts just leaves room for people to argue on vent posts. I get it, we don’t always get along on MPPC, no one always gets along. But, either generalize the post or use a fake name, and if you realize a post is about you, do not try to argue on that post. Keep it to DM’s. Arguments on posts will be locked ASAP.

    Do not say any slurs. I get it, sometimes you want to vent about people calling you things you dislike or that hurt you. But if you mention a slur, whether it be a racial slur or a slur used towards another group of people, censor it or say something like “[insert _ slur]” or “[_ slur]”. Slurs cause drama and in general should not be said. This includes but is not limited to: The R word, The F slur, The N word, The CC slur, you get the point.

    Don’t mention any sexual topics. While I get that sexual interactions may be a part of life, it shouldn’t be mentioned here due to underage members of this community being here. Any vent topics including anything explicitly stating anything about sex or anything related to that sort of thing will be deleted and will result in a mute. Remember that there are some things that just generally shouldn’t be added to vent topics on the internet, especially on a forum with no age limit. Talk about these things with people you trust or family members, not here.

    Use this category for the intended purpose. Don’t post any spam topics or anything that is not a vent. These topics will be locked/deleted at the choice of whatever staff members think is fit. We want to keep these categories as clean as possible and keep them in use of their original purpose. if you continue to make these topics, it will result in a mute or ban again at the discretion of staff.

    You get the point, basically. Use common sense and your good judgement to figure out if the things you’re posting should actually be posted on a forums site with children on it. If it isn’t something you’d tell an 8-10 year old, try to be as vague as possible with it. You’re welcome to vent and if you need someone I’m here to talk whenever I’m online. I’ll try to give the best advice I can if you need it, but if you just need to vent, I’m still here, and I’ll be glad to listen!

    Refer to the rules.

    Here’s a list of hotlines for if you need them(probably gonna gradually keep updating this):
    988 – Suicide Hotline, call or text
    741741 – Crisis Hotline, Text
    (800) 799-7233 – Domestic Violence Hotline, Call
    1-800-422-4453 – Child Abuse Hotline, Call

  • You need to talk?

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    @Kumi I got it :)

  • so I'm pissed [TW: uhhh idk smth]

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    its always good to educate yourself on the topics you’er talking about, or you could wind up accidentally spreadng misinformation

  • Dude can the sun just explode already

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  • My mom.

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    SphinxS

    🎀🤍🐱Kitty White🐱🤍🎀 said in My mom.:

    Sphinx bro you need to MOVE…. You need to get out there’s no way your mum is that psycho that she calls cps in time dad just bc she can’t get over the fact that you don’t want to speak to her

    I ready did I’m living with my dad right now

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    ry_rylieR

    @not-frankenste1n-msii_ That sounds like an incredibly painful and exhausting situation to be in, and I’m really sorry you’re going through all of this. It’s so hard when someone you trusted ends up making you feel manipulated or blamed for things that weren’t your fault. Breakups are already tough, but when you’ve put your heart into trying to work things out and then it feels like everything is suddenly turned against you, it can be overwhelming. Crying, losing sleep, and feeling completely drained are all completely normal reactions to something this intense. Please try to give yourself kindness and patience while you process everything. You don’t have to figure it all out right away. Make sure you’re taking care of yourself in small ways. Like maybe getting some rest, eating when you can, talking with people you trust, or even just taking a few quiet minutes for yourself. What happened doesn’t define your worth, and you deserve to feel safe, valued, and supported as you heal. Even if it feels impossible right now, the pain will soften with time, and you’ll find your footing again. For now, it’s okay to feel everything you’re feeling and to lean on people who care about you. I’m here for you always so you are always welcome to message me. I know all too well how you feel.

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    Xx_Midnight-skyz_xXX

    Sphinx I mean im not American but looking at the wall and the vehicle it looks like you’re going to school! NOT TO MENTION THE LITERAL BAG 😭 OMG YOUR MUM IS SUCH A FUCKING RETARD ITS ABSOLUTELY WILD

  • .

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    @MSI-number_1_fan-bitch LWK ATEEEEEE??? Not my fault I know how to swallow and she doesn’t 🎀

  • WHAT THE UFCK.

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    BlakeB

    Cathy real 🙏

  • sleeping problems.

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    @Siloxa922 ITS STILL GOING FOR A MONTH WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON BRO IM SCARED

  • my favorite color is red. [tw]

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    i don’t use my scars for fashion. never. my self harm is a coping mechanism. ONE of the reasons i do it is a cry for help.

    i dont feel comfortable diving into all the reasons i cut myself, but a kiwi wouldn’t help like you think it would.

  • If you cant be honest with your friends then they don't need you.

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    BlakeB

    Tenna!! | 💤🏝️ REALLLLLL ATEEEE FACTS

  • I think I'm starting to realize how clingy I am.

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    Wubbrle the [REDACTED]W

    @PeteFromEltingville Dont’ worry, me and everyone on here are all there for you :D

  • please stop.

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    Then don’t take them as a friend.

  • im so fucking tired

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    i dont know why, well i do, but my mental states been wrecked lately, ive been getting more like, selfaware and just more apologetic, crying more during nights, feeling like i fucked up, and i hate it, i hate it so fucking much. i feel like ive been fucking everything much
    i hate it
    i hate it
    i hate it
    i want it to end

  • Jesus.

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  • Canon event.

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    BlacknwhitepearlssB

    ♤ Hail :p ♢ just so everybody knows this isn’t about my online friends so don’t worry :))

  • idk

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    it’s getting so bad that i’m turning to c.ai for something to vent to

  • bro

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    .Rxnyz.

    having sisters is the worst

  • Nervous — The Neighbourhood

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    .Rxnyz.

    Maybe I shouldn’t try to be perfect
    I confess, I’m obsessed with the surface
    In the end, if I fall or if I get it all
    I just hope that it’s worth it
    Last year I fell flat on my face
    And last month I knew somethin’ should change
    Last week I started over again
    Ask me and I’ll tell you how I’ve been
    Mm, don’t get me started
    You’ve got me nervous to speak
    So I just won’t say anything at all
    I’ve got an urge to release
    And you keep tellin’ me to hold on
    You’ve got me nervous to move
    So I just won’t give anything to you
    You got me turnin’ all around to be who you need me to
    Should I be quiet? Uh
    Come on, be silent, uh
    You know I’m tryin’, so don’t say nothin’, uh
    Tell me you trust me, and
    Kiss me and hug me, yeah
    Well, I would do anything for ya
    You just gotta love me, and-
    I got an itch in my throat
    I don’t know which way to go
    I keep on switchin’, I know
    I need a different approach
    It’s all because I wanna show you that I’m so capable
    You’ve got me nervous to speak
    So I just won’t say anything at all
    I’ve got an urge to release
    And you keep tellin’ me to hold on
    You’ve got me nervous to move
    So I just won’t give anything to you
    You got me turnin’ all around to be who you need me to
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word, be quiet
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word
    Hush, baby, when you do, I just get hurt
    Come on, baby, don’t you hurt me anymore
    I’m not the same way that I was before
    I got goosebumps all over me
    When you’re around, hard for me to breathe
    Come on, baby, don’t you do that anymore, mhm
    It’s not like the days have never felt so short
    My nerves, they give me a sign
    Tell me I’m not fine, mm
    You’ve got me nervous to speak
    So I just won’t say anything at all
    I’ve got an urge to release
    And you keep tellin’ me to hold on
    You’ve got me nervous to move
    So I just won’t give anything to you
    You got me turnin’ all around to be who you need me to
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word, be quiet
    Hush, baby, don’t you say another word
    Hush, baby, when you do, I just get hurt

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