So, recently… like 2 months—3 months ago, I was able to have contact with my dad. as in contact, I was able to call him without my mom listening in. and show him things like my art and keep secrets from her without my mom knowing. He told me stuff about my mom that I could believe it’s her because I’ve been with the woman my whole life.
these are the things.
1.
He told me that sometimes she can’t differentiate work from home and ends up bringing work home (which is how she acts) I know that for true because she’s told me before, “Act like a prisoner, I’ll treat you like one” and took all and I mean ALL My stuff. Most of my clothes, shoes, Piano, art stuff, privilege’s to watch TV (My devices), A lot of my books but the bible, my will to speak with friends, ect.
2.
She… has been exaggerating about my dad my whole life, making me see him in a different light, and horrible light. But when I saw him… or—spoke to him on the phone and he heard through me what my mom’s been saying, He was baffled.
She told me he LEFT ME. He told me he didn’t LEAVE she LEFT HIM.
(SO basically CRAZY SHIT right? HE has legal papers that says that I’m supposed to go to him for the weekends and holidays in HIS STATE. so my mom said “Uh uh” and MOVED To texas. I’ve always wondered why we moved so far all of a sudden. basically… she KIDNAPPED ME. but legally because she CAN Do that. if he wants me back in HIS Custody, he has to do alot of signing shit and paying shit… but my mom gave me free will when I turn 18 to live with him if I want so I’ll be doing that… and we’ll think of a way to sue or something.)
He told me that when she left, He got a warrant against him for NOTHING… and he got arrested and taken to jail. He knew it was her because her friends showed up to the jail and pointed and laughed at him like an animal.
Just inhumane…
3.
The other wild shit I’ve heard that my dad DOESN’T Want me to spill to my mom (Because we don’t know how she’ll react because I’m going to see him aka ride a plane to see him in just a few weeks, and we don’t wanna ruin that) so uh… My dad JUST Found out cause the test results came in that… He has a son… a BIOLOGICAL SON… which makes that kid my Half brother… But I consider him my brother. he’s 12 years old, Just like me, and is a nice sport. (Why do I gotta be the eldest of 2 now 
) So I’ll be meeting him when I catch that plane to see that side of my family… (Mom has FINALLY Allowed me to do so. we can’t ruin it…)
Honestly with this information… that I have a brother and that my mom almost legally kidnapped me… I’m a little shook and since I’ve known her for all my life, I can see most to even all of the shit happening. she LITERALLY told me MOST OF MY LIFE How bad my dad is… How he LEFT And that he shouldn’t be trusted.
Almost to prepare me to… hate him…
Here are some stuff I wrote about her in the past.
Like from 2022-now
https://mpp.community/forum/topic/38694/mom
https://mpp.community/forum/topic/19493/vent-3-tw-suicide-narcissistic-mothers-self-harm-depression-knives-tall-heights-and-other?_=1695313907044
https://mpp.community/forum/topic/48296/mom-d
