Why do people have to be creepy and weird and not pick up on social cuesssssss 🤢
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Okay. I’m going to use fake names to keep identities safe because that’s the right thing to do. Also this is going to be long. REALLY. LONG.
ME: Jay (Just a kinda shortened version of my name.) (She/Her)
MY BF: Lee (Also a kinda shortened version of his name) (He/They) (Trans)
THE CREEPY BITCH: Audie (Shortened name.) (She/Her) (Also trans)So basically, Lee has Audie’s Discord, but they haven’t really talked since last year because something happened between them and it got awkward. I’m in my school’s theatre troupe, and unfortunately, so is Audie. We’re preparing for our show that was in like a month or so, and she starts talking to me while I’m painting a piece of set, because they have like literally nothing to do.
(Not sure why they didn’t just ask the director for something to do…)I’m mostly focused on painting, so like, I’m not paying a shit ton of attention to them, and they’re just…CIRCLING ME? As I’m painting. Not sure why. Anyway, we’re chatting, and I’m not getting great vibes from them, and we’re talking about some of my friends, and how they tried to ask some of my friends out before. (First it was Ace, then it was Lee, then it was Saf. All rejected.) I bring up that me and Lee are actually now dating, and she’s like ‘Oh really? That’s- uh…Good for you.’ They seemed…idk. Disappointed, maybe?
Time passes, we only see each other at theatre set builds, so I’m not too mad about it. HOWEVER. As I’m sitting at lunch with one of my friends, they bring up Audie. (I didn’t really know her name at this point in time, so I’m like who tf is that, and they explain.) I’m like ‘oh shit, I know her-’ and so my BF, Lee, brings up some messages that Audie had sent, which were things like “I heard you and Jay were dating. Good for you, you lucky bastard. Don’t fuck it up–or do fuck it up AND PUT IN A GOOD WORD FOR ME.”WHAT THE FUCK. NOT ONLY THAT, BUT THEY WOULD KEEP MESSAGING LEE ABOUT ME.
Eventually, we had a cast party, and they were sitting two seats away from me. (Also for the record, I wasn’t wearing anything super extravagant, I was just wearing a tunic because it was easy to take off and change clothes/shoes in. Apparently, Audie had messaged Lee and said “Fuck, Jay looks so pretty right now.”ALSO! NOT ONLY HAS AUDIE BEEN SAYING THAT KINDA SHIT, THEY’VE BEEN KINDA PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE TO LEE ABOUT ME.
AND THEN! When I show clear disinterest in Audie, they keep trying to talk to me.
Like recently, I had a really cool ass group of people come to my town. They’re called the Young Americans, and they teach you this Dance/Singing/Musical Theatre show in 3 days. SOMEHOW AUDIE FOUND OUT ABOUT ME BEING IN IT, AND SHOWED UP TO THE PERFORMANCE YESTERDAY. They were wandering around the YA cast, and the workshop kids, looking like they were looking for someone. One of my friends asked if she was looking for someone and they said no. However, they kept weirdly following my vague direction. Whenever I would turn around to try and find another cast member so I could have them sign my shirt, there she was. We kept making eye contact for a few seconds every time. Thankfully, I had a couple friends who I explained the situation to and helped me keep away from her. They would like block me from her sight, etc.Whatever. Anyway, I don’t like her. She creeps me the fuck out, and honestly, she’s just kinda a dick to my bf. I’m trying to get Lee to tell Audie to stop because she’s making both of us uncomfortable and to block her if that doesn’t work, but we both also love shit–talking her. (Also technically it’s truth–talking about a shitty person lmao-)
So, I’m nervous to see if they’ve messaged Lee about me avoiding them after the Young Americans. I just- I don’t know what to do. I can’t exactly file a harassment claim through the school, because they haven’t done anything to me personally. I’m pissed, and I have no idea what to do about it. Fucking help.EDIT: They also figured out what lunch I have/who I sit with on what days and they figured out where I am during 7th hour. (Which is the library. They’ve been there for the last couple of days and watch me and my friend give our computers back and leave.)
EDIT 2: Sorry that was really long to read. I apologize if it’s confusing as well. -
@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0
Thats so fucked up
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@Duke I KNOW! She seems like the kind of person who won’t take ‘no’ for an answer if she tries something, and it’s scary.
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 Damn, I’m sorry to hear that shit’s happening to you! I had a friend group who had a kid tag along and they don’t like him at all. He doesn’t pick up on social cues and literally doesn’t leave them alone.
I doubt that it’s as serious as your scenario, but it’s crappy nevertheless! I hope things get better ^ -
@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 use those goth thic boots every goth has (this is half a joke) and USE THEM if she tries ANYTHING
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𝓑𝓪𝓷𝓭𝓲𝓽 Thanks, man. I appreciate it. I just hope that she tries something (not too serious) so I can file a harassment claim, you know?
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@Duke God, I wish I had platforms lmao.
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 USE THEM cHUNKY HEELS AND KICK HER WOMAN RIGHTS RIGHT OFF
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@Duke LMAOOOOOO
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i’d punch her already if i were you, but again i have not enough patience for all that shit
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💀eyelovemoths🦋 Honestly, I would, but I have no reason to yet. She hasn’t tried to touch me or anything, to which then I would file a harassment claim and go to the cops- :P
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@Your-Local-Reaper damn