BDNS Gaslighting
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This is only for people who is on BDNS and heard some BLARING accusations about me, if you never came to BDNS then I would assume that you didnāt know about this.
So Iāll make this in very short terms, I have been dating someone named Natalie and for almost 1 - 2 months I was put into a 50/50 environment, it could be an okay mood in the relationship and the next day I would get 20+ Snarly messages from Natalie and 14+ Messages from her friends in which (I NEVER AGREED HER TO GIVE MY NUMBER TO PPL I DONT KNOW).
I struggle with HPS (hypersexuality) and when Natalie asked for a vid call for the first time I was okay with it but a few calls later, she started getting. weird. And encouraged for me to do something.
Regardless if HPS is an excuse or not, itās not. And something that couldāve been handled privately Instead of public isnāt something healthy to do.
So meanwhile sheās giving her āvictimā statement and make all of you assume that I was the one who often asked for the vid calls and everything else.
Obviously I didnāt like where everything was going so I made A LOT of excuses to not video call, audio call, and anything thats related to calling at all.
And the person who planted the image was Jason (which Iāll give the facts Abt him in a later rant)
Had a HUGE VENDETTA against me since I didnāt see his conservative views in life, back then, we gave each other our info which was the first red flag that I shouldāve known since he quickly changed his information and stole mines just for his own sick and twisted wrath.
Now, HPS isnāt anything to laugh about since it can legitimately hurt people not only physically but mentally, (Ive been 5 - 6 days clean if anybody cares) .
When I broke up with Natalie, she bribed, begged, and pleaded to take me back which I didnāt want since she was instigating the entire situation which shouldāve been classified as a horrible accident.
She told me MULTIPLE TIMES that if I donāt go back with her that she would ____ herself which disturbed me alot and I didnāt want that but at the same time I needed to step away from her entirely because of a certain pattern she sometimes uses.
The pattern usually varies on the scenario, like if I disappear for a few hours I would return with SNARLY messages that I didnāt want at all.
Obviously I take accountability for the major accident instead of weaseling in a corner and crying and if I had the opportunity instead of thoughtlessly proceeding I couldve actually stopped a major controversy .
And thereās someone (who I will not say who) but they believe that Natalie was justified for an āUpdateā which fuels more fire unnecessarily.
So now people assume that Iām a disgusting person with bad intentions while in reality BOTH people are villains and should be booād from both sides.
And what Natalie couldāve done was 1: Speak Up, Silence would make things Worse. 2: Sense the Problem Before it Grows. And 3: Not Encouraging any weird activities at all.
She did not do all 3 and thatās where everything went downhill.
After the Breakup I assumed that everything would be a new chapter to everything but sadly I was wrong, occasionally Natalie would send a lot of the āPlease take me Backā messages and audio texts.
And after the 7/15/26 Incident I got permanently banned from something that couldāve been easily preventable if I double checked if the image I selected was that one baby kratos image I recently screenshoted for silly purposes.
Moral of the Story, there are no victims in this case, itās only 2 Villains in this overall controversy
Me and Natalie.
Iām not taking her back but if she has to go through huge lengths to paint me as a villain instead of being somewhat truthful about the things she was threatening behind the scenes then I have to put in my side just to make it even.
THIS IS NOT FOR POINTING FINGERS AT SOMEONE AND SAY THEY DESERVED TO BE PERMABANNED
This is only posted for clarification and understanding purposes only and I do not seek any refuge or anyone on here saying āoh your the victim in this caseā
No. There are 0 Victims and said Villains must take accountability instead of 1 Villain being incredibly biased on the āvictimā image, meanwhile the other Villain canāt clarify to the masses and give off a side to speak on.
Do NOT engage or harass anybody that is a part of the controversial event currently.
Natalie at some point even begged me to take her back and that āshe will forgive the mistakeā which is quite the lie she made 1 day after that
(I AM NOT MAKING THIS POST OUT OF ANGER BUT I FEEL LIKE PEOPLE SHOULD GET BOTH SIDES INSTEAD OF BEING BIASED ACROSS ONE)
(THIS POST WAS MEANT TO BE PRIVATE BUT IN THIS CASE, DESPERATE TIMES CALL FOR DESPERATE CASES)
And for the āpressuringā part, there was 0 THREATENING, 0 GASLIGHTING, and 0 VIOLENCE involved in any way shape or form.
There is a difference between saying/asking and pressuring, the very fact and concept that you would ATTEMPT to say something without being entirely truthful sickens me and should be called out equally as the next person.
-Kiwi
w weirdness
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KiwiArkavelVA this is absolutely not true in any way shape or form. Why we are both most likely not mature enough to be in a relationship i never once started acting āweirdā on ft, YOU DID. U would legit whip out ur dih when i told you stop, i thought i was joking but i wasnāt, you know i struggle w ODD, i never meant to get mad as easy as i did, and you legit forgave me for the begging and now your gonna come up on here with a whole different story? Ur absolutely pathetic, i will be posting my side of the story.
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KiwiArkavelVA Holy Cow
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the both of you need to shut the fuck up
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Yall just love dragging issues from bdns onto here donāt you
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Ohhhh my god nobody cares š³š³š³
