Y'all I fuckin hate this š¹š¹ like be fucking for real
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My parents always make me feel bad when I ask for shit. Like Iāll be like āHey can I show you somethingā and theyāll be like āgive me a few, Iām exhausted Iām frustrated, I feel like dookie blah blah blahā and on and on about how bad their day was or how exhausted they are. And I really just wanna tell them one day that I didnāt need to hear their entire traumatic childhood to explain their villain ark and why their name is now fuckinā¦ Joker or some shit. Like deadass. Like I can never just ask or say shit anymore ššššš¹
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@Hexed-To-Death like jeez mom, donāt need to make me feel bad over something thatās not my problem.
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truu
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Rarely happens for me, but I hope things do get better for you.
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@Hexed-To-Death Frrrr, for me it goes
āMom, Iām hungry, is there anything we can orderā
āwHy DoNt YoU aSk YoUr FaThErāI just wanna eat and you wonāt feed us because youāre mad at our dad
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Sapphire!!! thank you
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@Hexed-To-Death :)
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@Hexed-To-Death Is it just me, or do a lot of parents need to seek therapy? I mean, itās not far fetched to say. Parentsā problems seem to downfall onto their kids which creates more problems. Have you considered suggesting therapy if she doesnāt already go?
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@Duchess Sometimes, that happens to other parents.
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@Duchess my mom has a therapist already
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@Hexed-To-Death but I see what you mean. It sucks. :(
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@Hexed-To-Death I wonder why she still takes out her issues on you then. I suppose itās still a problem for her even if she talks about it with a professionalā¦ But itās interesting how you canāt even seem to have a normal conversation without her dumping her stuff on you. Thatās probably hard since youāre just her child.
Does her dumping things on you make you feel a little responsible to be there for her when she gets that way?
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@Duchess no not really. it just makes me feel annoyed and angry.