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@roxane who
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@Duchess I donât expect much from a relationship.
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first ârelationshipâ in 4th grade for 2 years. went through about 3 other serious relationships, now im dating pheo. i just wanna be understood and happy
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@roxane Oh? :0 Are you going to do something with that information?
@laraiia Oh yeah, I remember reading something about you being asexual or aromanticâŚ? You can correct me if Im wrong. I hope thatâs not exposing too much about you, but. Honestly? I used to think I was asexual. Like. My whole life up until I met Tree. Even when we first started dating I wasnt totally sure how I felt about the idea of liking someone at all. Even though I didnt consider being in a relationship before, oddly I highly enjoyed helping those in one. Obviously I still enjoy it.
Sapphire!!! Itâs okay to not expect too much but itâs also good to have some expectations. Such as not cheating, being kind to you, standing by your side when you need help, ect. There are people who expect too little because they worry about being a clingy/controling partner. But then they get sad because they donât tell their partner how they feel, and itâs not a good position for both sides. Not that thatâs what youâd do lol, but itâs just interesting how expectations work in a relationship.
@maybenot-finneas Wow, you dated really young lol. Do you think the more you grow older, the more you become commited/hopeful to a life-long relationship?
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@Duchess said in Relationship Story?:
Sapphire!!! Itâs okay to not expect too much but itâs also good to have some expectations. Such as not cheating, being kind to you, standing by your side when you need help, ect. There are people who expect too little because they worry about being a clingy/controling partner. But then they get sad because they donât tell their partner how they feel, and itâs not a good position for both sides. Not that thatâs what youâd do lol, but itâs just interesting how expectations work in a relationship.
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@Duchess yeah! i think the older you get the more you wanna settle down
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@Duchess asexual, and interesting story! but thing is, i feel like i am not really asexual and i was just guessing my sexuality⌠i dont know
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@laraiia Oh, interesting. As you grow older and meet more people at collage or a job, maybe youâll figure it out then. I donât know too many people irl, so it took me a while to figure out what I wanted. Talking about it with someone helps a lot though. Someone who doesnât judge or push anything. I know I talked to Tree about it and just being able to bounce things off of someone else is so amazing. If you ever feel confused, asking questions is the way to go :)
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@Duchess thank you :)
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@Duchess well, i have dated a few people that i do have a feeling of gratitude for the fun times me and them shared, each one helped me shape into the man i am today, and i am forever thankful that they did, i used to be rude and a big bully, because back then my mind didnât really wrap around love that well, but over time with those people i see as angels, i started to soften up, and enjoy the feeling of love, and to enjoy what it means to love someone with my whole heart, most of them have made me proud with how successful theyâve become, ive only realized it during one of my recent break ups, that i always put others Infront or above me, because to my world, everyone is like a little flower waiting to bloom, and i have already bloomed, i bloomed into a loving father figure to some, a loving bigger brother to others, and i bloomed into a man who will stop at nothing to protect who he loves dearly, every time i talk to someone i barely met, i tend to have the feeling that i need to protect them too, and to fill in the empty spots left by bad parents or family members, all i really want in a relationship, is to see my spouse happy, always happy to see and hear from me, and most of all, to feel so loved and special, because everyone is, everyone is special in their own little one, some have found what makes them special, as others are soon to find theirs, if i never dated i wouldnât have met all the nice people i know now, and yes, that does mean i enjoy talking to you to duchess if you read this as well, i know we hardly know each other, but i can always tell your a kind of loving person, who wants to help out any possible way they can so no one is ever down in the dumps, and that is something i respect and agree with.
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@Duchess my current relationship story starts in December 2021. We had shared the same science class and hit it off right away. We became best friends. While we were best friends I went through two relationships. One, I was neglected and left to suffer while I mutilated myself thinking it was my fault. Second one it was good, but it was long distance and communication never went well for us. And they also had the same experiences, being with two toxic relationships. During the summer, on July 19th or 18th, I finally confessed my feelings for her. She had always loved me romantically, since the ending of her second to last relationship. A couple nights before our confessions, she had explained to me she was looking for love. We were up until 5 am, talking about wanting someone to make out with us, and I nearly made my move but I couldnât do it just yet. I felt unprepared and anxious, so I waited until that other night to confess finally. And the day after after the confession, we had a sleepover. And that sleepover brought us to officially start dating on July 21st, seeing as if we stayed friends after that it would be ridiculous. So yes, I am dating my bestest friend ever. The one who understood me, the one who loved me most, the one who welcomed me, the one who accepted me.
When I look for a relationship I technically lean more into the great friendship first kinda thing, and my type so far has been emoâŚI look for someone who can listen to me, who can understand my struggles, who can communicate with me, who can fight with me but never hold a grudge, who can care for me when my body is in itâs most vulnerable state, who can make me feel safe, who dossnt fuck with my emotions or fuck with my body in a horrible way, who can talk with me or not and still be content and happy, who can make me happy and who can have civilized conversations with me. I look for more mature people. A little bit older, and mentally mature. I canât be in an immature relationship at all. I mean serious business.
I have been cheated on before, and I know now not to let my guard down. I am very obsessive, protective, caring, loving, affectionate, touchy, and talkative, and if my partner can not match my energy, itâs over.
My partner now is everything I could ever ask for. And I love them so much. I cannot wait for our 1 year anniversary on July 21st
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@Duchess my crush just blocked me and called me disgraceful but other then that my relationships havent been good
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My relationship story starts when I first met Misty.
It was late at night, say around 12 PM for me. I was very lonely so I was talking to myself and playing the piano instead of sleeping, because younger me wanted anything but rest.
Misty came online and saw me, and I assume she wanted to take advantage of me and ban me for spamming and flooding, but that was in the past.
After that I hated Misty so much because I thought it wasnât fair.
A few weeks later, when I was roleplaying with Shade, he decided to steal âweedâ from one of my characters, and give I to Mistyâs character. After that I got to have a chance and interact with Misty, and I began to start getting along with her.
Eventually we talked and roleplayed more, eventually she did a joke confession saying she liked me.
Whenever someone confesses to me, I typically develop feelings for them as time passes, I donât know why, but I guess I just like people who show feelings for me.
Eventually, a week before we got together, Misty started to actually like me back, and after one last roleplay, I couldnât help but to start dating her. I was with Inkfell at the moment, and I tried to pull a poly relationship, but that ended up failing and inkfell left me. It was for the best, because now me and Misty are very happy together and we have been dating for over a year now, this now being my longest happy and lasting relationship that I plan on continuing forever.
My other longest relationship lasted a year and two months and I lost feelings for him halfway through he relationship (Skill Issue) (L+Ratio)
After June 27th, this will be my longest relationship ever.
And it will stay like that.
Forever.
:)
(Almost put a sad face, that would be interpreted horribly >:/)
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but as for my current relationship. kinda a cute story. okay so,i met pheo when i wqs at my grandmas house, i was online, bored and the only roleplayer there, he showed up and we stsrted roleplaying whilst talking. i developed feelings for him a while ago but i lost contact due to lack pf abto the fact i couldnt be on mpp. i went on sometimes i was really happy to see him, he made my day. and it was special. eventually, he joined mppc and we started talking here. i was like âyou know, i had a huge crush on you right?câ and he was like âyou shouldve told meâ. eventually, i told him i still liked him, he admitted he shared those feelings, we started talking and now weâre dating, havent been for long but imwe started dating on may 4, so its been about 3 weeks. and im really happy so far and im really hoping things work out because he makes me really happy and i love him so <3
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