Maybe I'm just not enough

[A Former User]

I can never get anything right. Either I’m too caring and too empathetic to where people think I’m annoying and too bothersome or I’m not caring enough and people think I’m mean and weird, or I’m just in the middle but still others find it either too much or too little or just annoying and idk what to do anymore. Anything I do I fuck up. I probably complain too much and people just can’t take it anymore, I probably yap too much and say too much and care too much that people feel weirded out or just want nothing to do with me. I’m probably too little and I’m not trying hard enough or I need to stop trying to make situations lighter and easier, maybe I’m just not enough. I hate this cycle.

[A Former User]

I’m either overly caring and annoying or not supportive or caring enough.

[A Former User]

@CyxLovezJeff None of those your just a good person son a very good person in my eyes and in the communities eyes

[Shazz_]

@CyxLovezJeff There’s never any kind of standard in order to be caring and kindhearted that people should see of you - I can’t see how your sympathy would be annoying at all honestly, and even so, they might think it’s too much just because of what they may think is the ‘right’ amount.
I know you don’t mean to be in this situation. It’s hard to tell sometimes whether you feel the need to do something about your actions in order to please those people, but what matters is keeping that empathetic aura that you possess, because it’s really special, regardless of others’ influences.

[A Former User]

I’m just gonna start not caring anymore. Idk how to make people happy and if I can’t do shit then I can’t do shit and y’know what I don’t care anymore. I’ll just stop caring.

[finn.in.outer.space.]

@CyxLovezJeff If thats what you need to do in order to save your mental health do that. That is completely okay bc your mental health comes first luv!

[finn.in.outer.space.]

@a7x-isbetter-thanu I completely understand the feeling I’m going through the same thing but my advice to you is to remember not everyone matters and people who make you dislikes yourself or make you think you fuck up all the time aren’t people who deserve your time. You do a lot of things right, you are one of my best friends and I’ve never had an issue with you tbh. I’m here if you wanna talk :)

[finn.in.outer.space.]

@a7x-isbetter-thanu You are more than enough bookie and I am so lucky to have someone like you in my life

[A Former User]

@a7x-isbetter-thanu I just wish it didn’t have to come to the point where I’m crying and telling myself that I’m not gonna care about people anymore

[A Former User]

@a7x-isbetter-thanu thank you so much, I really appreciate you and shadow. You guys were here when no one else was and I love y’all.

[A Former User]

Shazz_ ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[finn.in.outer.space.]

@CyxLovezJeff I know, it’s hard :(

[Lainey]

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[finn.in.outer.space.]

@CyxLovezJeff I LOVE YOU TOO SHNOOKEMS BEAR