Vent if anyone cares TW btw

[A Former User]

@Foxaroo I was friends with someone for a good while even though they were toxic and hurt me. I stuck with them because it wasn’t tecnically too bad, like if they bullied me and stuff, but it was just enough to make me feel sad about that person, yknow? I tried telling myself i could make it work, but it got to the point where i was just stringing myself along, honestly. Giving myself false hope. I dont want you to feel like you HAVE to be friends with people who hurt you just to make them feel good. If they dont know they hurt you, they should know. And if they dont care to change, its okay to slowly phase people out of your life.

[A Former User]

@Duchess said in Vent if anyone cares TW btw:

I was friends with someone for a good while even though they were toxic and hurt me.

I get that

I made a whole post about it

https://mpp.community/forum/topic/12138/ex-bestfriend-serious-tw-suicide-talk?_=1708520554641

https://mpp.community/forum/topic/7573/this-was-how-my-thanks-giving-break-was?_=1708520554644

[A Former User]

@保志久美 Oh wow

[A Former User]

@Duchess

And the center of all that, I was in the “I never had a best friend longer than (This) and that makes me weird” phase.

But I needed to know that friends come and go.

You’re never really certain if you’ve found the one true best friend.

[A Former User]

@保志久美 That’s very true. Friends, even ones you feel are lifetime friends, will go. Life changes. People move away. People change how they act. People lose interest in you, even. I had been friends with some girl in middle and highschool and then when I had to uh, leave school, we didnt talk much anymore. She tried to have me come over, but I couldnt, and then eventually she drastically changed all the sudden. She texted me a few years ago saying…some interesting stuff about herself. Let’s just say she changed everything about herself. Everything. So it didnt feel like i was really friends with the girl i originally was, so i kind of just stopped talking to her. I know that friendship died on my account, but to be honest, I didnt really care because I knew it wouldnt work out since we couldnt talk irl anymore, and for a lot of other reasons.

[A Former User]

@Duchess interesting stuff?

[Looking for jay]

@Duchess mhm yeah thank you for that! And I hope your feeling better after that friend situation you didn’t deserve that

[Wubbrle the Wubble]

@保志久美 You’ve adressed the right bois man

[Wubbrle the Wubble]

@Foxaroo I hope you will feel better

[Looking for jay]

Wubbrle the amazing Wubble thank you

[Wubbrle the Wubble]

@Foxaroo I gotta sleep so gn!

[Looking for jay]

Wubbrle the amazing Wubble gn!

[A Former User]

@Foxaroo Oh, yes im very past that. Thank you. I have all of you guys so I dont feel like Im missing anything.

[Looking for jay]

@Duchess mhm ^^