Don't you think we're going too far?
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So every wednsday i go to youth group
in that thing there’s a kid who i’ll call Taylor swift. She makes paper dragons too so every week i bring one of mine and she brings hers.
This little girl who i’ll call Beyonce, annoying little shit that i dislike but respect and wouldn’t intentionally be rude to. I made beyonce a dragon last week and brought it to her this week. I ran out of yellow (FUCKING SHARPIES OMFGREILKRWFIOKRF) So it was one-sided. She LOVED it and didn’t give a SHIT.On our way home my mom was yelling at me that my dragon that i brought to show to Taylor swift was ‘too scary’. Beyonce didn’t think it was scary. Beyonce’s sister didn’tthink it was scary. Beyonce’s little 4 year old brother didn’t think it was scary.
also the images they show sometimes for educational purpouses show like burning sheep and dead bloody corpses.And how i brought a ‘half ass dragon’ for Beyonce even though she loved it.
I Also i told Taylor swift i was going to kalahari with 4-H and invited her.
at the door mom was SCREAMING at me that i shouldn’t have let her know without us actually knowing she can come.
I start having a panic attack, I’m crying so hard i’m struggling to breath or talk, and my moms like ‘i can’t fucking do anything right, i might as well fucking MOVE OUT’
as my dad says ‘can’t you just calm down?’
dad helped me calm down, i still am not breathing normally now, will break down at anything, and moms a little calmer.
my mom is a fuggin angry t-rex when mad
and she gets mad often.
also i wasn’t crying that bad in the car but as i sniffled up the steps she was like ‘WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU CRYING’, still mad and keeps yelling.
I love my mom but
don’t you think we’re going too far?
also i NEVER had a panic attack before. I thought i was gonna suffocate. I thought i was gonna die
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@Enzi Aw :( That is so sad. I am sorry. It sounds like your mom needs to go to anger management or something. You didnt need to be yelled at for a dragon the person actually really liked angways. Youre creative, she should just let you be lol. I understand her frustration with you inviting Taylor Swift without knowing she could come, but that wasnt a screm-at-your-child worthy scenario in my opinion. Your mom really needs to chill. Yes, she went too far.
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@Duchess She gets mad easily
she’s sorta a perfectionist and has anxiety.
It was the first time she was that bad and it made me really scared and anxious.
I legit couldn’t breathe or stand on my legs
they were like not sturdy
She said sorry later tho
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@Enzi That’s nice he said sorry at least. But I understand how that made you feel. Your mom really needs to work on not getting worked up on stuff so much. At least for your sake.
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@whatswrongwith-zof 😨 I go to a youth group too. I go Fridays not Wednesday. Ik what ur thinking Wednesday might be for seniors and I’m 14 🤔 why am I in junior youth. I had mad beef with 2 boys and my mum started shouting at them through gym and caused a meeting I left early and started going Friday instead. lol anyway fuck the girl they prob just a daughter if a druggie looking fir a rise out a young girl me personally would have jumped that girl for giving mrs the mouth I ain’t the best influence but if it happens again tell your youth workers for what that girl dad for making lies to get you in or ask your dad to pick you up from youth groups in the future. Also what your mum did was not ok she shouldn’t be shouting at you just for something little. Sometimes children think before they act which is a normal part of a human especially when it’s friends they don’t think they just want things to happen. Your mom should have been calm and collected and had a small talk with you on why it’s not okay to invite people to things without her being told or you not letting her know especially when things can cost money not become a fucking dinosaur out of Jurassic park and start screaming and yelling. Nor should your mum shout at you for crying and having a panic attack your mum should be helping you along side your father your their daughter for a reason crying is a normal part of human emotions so it should be ok to cry she shouldn’t shout at you for crying because she’s probably done it too.