Sphinx I was the same last year, except my case was face to face. Me as a person, I spoiled my family and myself with NinSwitches. Bought $1200 worth of em (4) for myself and family to enjoy. I enjoy spoiling people.
So at my job, it was very low staffed, that my boss borrowed managers from nearby branches, and this Hot woman, mother of 1 boy, temporarily worked there.
I had the most insane crush on her, and one day I got her number. Less than a week later, we discovered each other’s bodies via photos. It only took 3 days. Then after the 7th day, we became physical, at our job if we were the only ones working, alone, iykyk.
I also bought her promise rings, and basketball earrings since she played basketball in her youth. It was only $20 at a local fair. But she met my family as they come up to visit, which was too much for her too soon, and it started our downfall.
Another coworker had also tried making moves on her, which triggered my jealousy/territorial side, which is the second thing that contributed to our downfall, due to our messages back and forth.
Within 2 weeks, she’s blocked me/unblocked me like 5 times. We had nothing but arguments since from that day of the fair. It was the most toxic person I’ve ever tried getting involved with. She also never allowed any dating, as she had her son, and her alleged jailed “dangerous” baby daddy trying to force himself into her life (as she doesnt want a relationship with him but is forced to co parent)