Good evening, I’m just going to get straight to the point. So, instead of “resolving things maturely”, and “owning up to mistakes”, we are going after the community and portraying it as if it’s their fault? Really? Did the community do all the terrible stuff? No. The community did not harass the individuals. The community did not put out sensitive information without consent. Yes, nobody in this world is perfect, I understand. I’m not perfect either, in fact, I’m far, far from perfect. Mistakes happen, but this seems far from it. I’ve done some horrible stuff to people too, and I know I for sure I can’t have my apologies accepted by everyone. From what I’ve currently seen, the community only tried addressing stuff that had to be addressed, yet it all devolved into a difficult, deplorable riot that can easily be stopped. Why are we like this? Why can’t we just own up to everything that’s going on and address it maturely? I’m quite frankly ashamed, DISGUSTED I was ever affiliated with any of this. If I had known, I would’ve ran far, far away. But, that’s what happens. You can’t have cake and eat it too, I guess.
Please do better guys. There is no way but up after this. We should all use this as a lesson, and guide ourselves to the correct path. Thank you for listening what I had to say, I’m just so upset because I feel like this is all my fault. I have a hard time trying to not blame myself for everything that’s going on. Let’s take the time to reflect on everything, and let’s resolve it peacefully and maturely.
Best wishes, Tea & Crumpets.
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Long overdue.
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Quick notice.
Hello, community. I would like to mention that I won’t be online as much for the following few days, if at all. During the night, a strong blizzard hit the North and Central parts of my country, downing power lines and disrupting traffic everywhere. I live in the north, and I’ve pretty much been snowed-in. We have no electricity, no running water, no heating, it’s a disaster. Even worse, this snow isn’t even stopping. It’s been falling continuously for the past day or so. But, I’d like to wish everyone a merry christmas, and a jolly great time. I’m not a christian myself, but it’s the least I can do to be respectful to other religions’ customs.
That’s all I really have to say. Peace guys, and I hope to see everyone as early as possible. I will make an update topic once power has been restored. I am currently using mobile network, which itself is currently quite weak because of the blizzard. -
RE: okay so
The circumstances you find yourself in do not excuse you from your terrible actions in the past. I’m sorry, but I do not see this as an appropriate way to respond over the loss of a life. We, as a community, are truly sorry for your loss. But, don’t take your anger out on others. It’s not a good look, and especially from a person we’re supposed to look up to. Very, very recently, one of my family members who I loved passed away, and I’m not here going around taking my anger out on people who do not deserve it. Others had nothing to do with it. I know it’s stressful, but I deal with stress by taking it on a day-to-day object, like a pillow. Not a person. Please do better.
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"You have to have respect for me. I'm a grown-up."
Guys? How many times have you heard this excuse being used by adults towards non-adults?
I just heard it again today and quite frankly I’m getting sick of it. No, the youngster has a right not to respect you, because you’re acting like a bitch interrupting said youngster while they’re talking. If you don’t respect one person, then you don’t deserve said person’s respect back. Adults should stop playing the victim card for being scolded by people younger than them for being reminded of basic manners. Nobody fucking cares that you’re 48. You’re not a God for others to have respect for you at all times. This is called reaping what you sow. Disrespect others? Don’t expect respect from others back. End of story. -
RE: how old are u
My age is larger than the number that reads when your mother steps on the scale to weigh herself.
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Clock has struck midnight. October 9th. This is the day I have been birthed. Hooray, or whatever. I don’t really celebrate.
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Update 2
Re: Update 1
Electricity is back on, I’m home now. I can resume to my regular activity levels.
Edit: Also why did the design change again? This looks worse, I don’t know why even bother changing it. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.
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Happy New Year.
Clock has struck midnight here where I live. It’s officially 2025. I wish everyone a wonderful new year. 2024 for me has pretty much been terrible. Numerous hardships, breakdowns, etc. But, that’s now in the past year. Now it’s time to move forward. I’d like to thank all my friends for being there for me in 2024. You all are wonderful people and I’m very thankful for that. You all know who you are :D. What are your guys’ resolutions, by the way? Mine was originally to cut off being online on social media as much, or even stop being online at all. That meant resigning from here and coming on from not as often, or at the extreme unfriending everyone and deleting all my accounts. But, I decided against that just a few hours ago, because I did not want to enter this year on such a dark note. If I went through with it, I would’ve certainly regretted it. Now, I don’t… really have one, I guess. Should’ve made alternatives…
Okay, that’s enough of me yapping, I’m in the midst of my New Years party 😜.
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RE: just remember
this is something that not many people say yet it’s true
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RE: The most out of pocket shit I've seen in this groupchat (Part 1.)
i know that gc is spicy but like
not everyone wants to see what you guys do in there
it would be preferable if stuff like this wasn’t posted
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RE: Good/okay things go bad (tw, politics)
You forgot one thing:
Western Europe. It has also been going downhill since the early-to-mid 2010s due to instability in places like Africa and the Middle east (Syrian, Libyan, Yemeni & Afghan civil wars, dictatorships in West Africa and violence in East Africa), which has lead to mass migration. Now, I don’t mind migration to another country, but these refugees have been terrorizing and freeloading in Western Europe, which has caused the rise of nationalist, extreme right euroskeptic parties (in dumb American terms, Nazis but not really). For example: Alternative für Deutschland (AfD) in Germany. They’ve been on the rise since very recently, and if they win the upcoming election in Germany which is due to take place on February 23rd 2025, they are going to expel all migrants, yes, all. Even people who simply came to Germany to fill in the worker gap. That’s like if America ordered the explusion of all Mexican people from America because they’re “criminals”, even though many of them have nothing to do with crime and are in America for a better life & to fill in the gap of workers that America needs. They’ve also expressed leaving the EU, which would be an extremely idiotic idea. UK left the EU in 2020, and they’ve been plagued by tons of issues since Brexit, to the point many in the UK now wish to rejoin. -
RE: (Controversial?) why do people who live in the USA call themselves "Americans"?
because it’s just easier to say “American” than “United states of American”, the latter of which would be very silly. you don’t hear people from the UK being called “united kingdomers” do you?
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RE: Today was wild- (Tw? Politics? idk the stance on this- but like- it's simply a mention.)
if i were you i’d probably go to norway
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RE: In Reguards to Nova
funny how this type of shit was the drama back in the day, all revolving 1 person
i still disagree with this post years later, because nova deserved any backlash they had coming, this was just a lame “mediatory” type of post that everyone read, “agreed” with and did the exact opposite, and good on those people