To be honest, saying all this shit about love just isn’t true. What is true about love is that, it hurts. It hurts but you get through it. What’s true about love is that you’ll fight. And you’ll argue. But you’ll communicate your way through it and find a solution because you both work out. What’s true about love is that sometimes you have to take breaks to make sure you both are bettering yourselves to love each other better. What’s true about love is that you will cry from the pain of your lover, and that they will cry from your pain too, but that is because they love you. What’s true about love is that you’ll find it and you’ll be happy knowing you found it and that no matter what happens and no matter how much you guys go through, you guys still manage to keep on going and working things out.
What you both described, IS NOT LOVE. Don’t ruin love for others because of emotional abuse. I assume you might be in middle-highschool, you still have so much to learn about love and relationships. Besides it’s too early to love properly now.
