@Namira Im pretty sure youre the target because youre nice. I think it also has to do with peopleβs respect for you and clearly they dont have any. You have to snap back for people to know you have boundaries.
When people would say stuff to me in school (which wasnt often), id just say βthats disgustingβ or something to highly disapprove of their comment while also, I suppose shaming them for their comment.