♥『𝑀𝑜𝓍𝓍𝒾』♥ I’m really sorry you’re dealing with all of that. Honestly, reading this hurt my heart a little because I can tell how much you genuinely care about him and how badly you just want him to be okay. It’s exhausting when you’re trying so hard to care for someone, check on them, make sure they’re sleeping, eating, taking care of themselves, and instead of feeling appreciated, it feels like they’re shutting you out or snapping at you for even trying. That kind of thing really does hurt, especially when all your intentions are coming from love.
And I completely understand why you’re upset about the communication too. Being ignored, put on DND, or feeling like someone suddenly doesn’t want to talk to you can make you feel pushed away even if that wasn’t their intention. I know people go through things mentally and sometimes isolate themselves, but that doesn’t make it hurt any less for the people who care about them.
I don’t wanna make this about me at all, but me and my boyfriend/husband have been having some problems too, and I understand that feeling of loving someone so much while also feeling frustrated, hurt, and confused by the distance between you. It’s such a hard feeling because you wanna be there for them no matter what, but at the same time you start wondering why caring has to feel so painful sometimes.
I just hope you know your feelings are valid. Wanting communication, honesty, and basic respect from someone you love isn’t asking for too much. I really hope things get better for you both soon, because I can tell you care about him deeply.
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RE: My bf is genuinely pissing me offposted in Vent
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Temporary Reduced Activity Noticeposted in Wellbeing
Hello everyone, I wanted to take a moment to address my recent inactivity.
Over the past few weeks, I’ve been navigating some personal and mental challenges that have made it difficult for me to be as present and responsive as I typically strive to be in my role as an administrator. While I care deeply about this community and the responsibilities I hold here, I’ve realized that I need to take a short step back to properly focus on my well-being and regain the clarity and energy needed to continue supporting you all effectively.
Please know that this decision wasn’t made lightly. Being part of this community and helping lead it is something that genuinely means a lot to me. However, I also recognize that in order to show up as my best self, I need to take the time to work through what I’ve been dealing with behind the scenes. During this period, I may be less active than usual, but I will still check in when I can and ensure that things continue to run smoothly alongside the rest of the team.
I truly appreciate your patience, understanding, and continued support. It does not go unnoticed. I’m looking forward to returning to my usual level of activity soon and continuing to contribute in the way you all deserve. I have a doctor’s appointment next Monday to see if I can get on medication or do something to help me and my mental health so I can be better for the rest of you guys. You can still come to me about anything. I will leave my snap and discord in my bio in case I’m not online here at the exact moment that you need me.
Thank you guys for being such a supportive and understanding community.
