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of relief that you know you could text your bestie at anytime of the day either at 1 pm or 4 am and you’ll know they’ll wake up and make sure your going to be alright?
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Layla No bc, if i text my bsf and poor my god damn heart out, they would respond 20 hr later saying “huh”
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@Izzy damn
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Layla
No, mine ghosted me and we haven't talked since last year. -
{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} my old best friend did that too, I got super depressed and we finally talked a few weeks ago and it turned out his life was so much better without me
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Layla
Yeah and when they have a better time without you, it just hurts cause that was your first/only friend. -
{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} OMG YES
I was depressed for so long and he was happy, like bro even got a job without telling me :sOb: -
Layla
FR. Like, how are you gonna just leave me? I know you have you're own life etc. But you said we we're in this together?? -
{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} Once I knew a guy, and I he told me that we were like “titanium” and that we would never lose our friendship. Then weeks later messaged me saying saying it was basically over. I think when friends dump you like that, and so instantly, you start to become more chosey with who you consider a true friend.
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{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} yea!! Like bro we’ve known each other for FIVE years and one day your just leave me behind
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@Duchess
And then people wonder why you don't trust them with certain things. -
Layla
FR. I've known mine my whole life and I knew her better than ANYBODY else in our whole friend group. Nobody even reached out to me to tell me what was going on. I couldn't even reach out because I didn't have my phone. If only I had seen the signs last year I wouldn't be this hurt. -
Layla Those are the people who you realize lost value in your friendship. Maybe they saw it valuable long ago, but when someone ups and leaves, that’s when you know they never saw it going long in the first place. There are people who are friends in middle school and even elementary and they stay friends till their adult life. So, it’s not impossible of course. It’s all about keeping the commitment, really. And some people don’t really like to commit long term.
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{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} Yeahh, they wonder why people have so much distrust in society today lol. Then they ditch friends, gossip, expose secrets, ect. It baffles me how people question why they don’t have solid friendships when they do that at the same time
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@Duchess
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