Can we actually speak on this though. TW: being real and not sugar coating shit.🥺🥺🥺

[A Former User]

Putting in off-topic because if I put in “discuss” some mod will be like “oiuhEOIHNWEBIN YOU- Y-YOUU!!!”

Anyways, can we talk about the fact that someone will make a post on how their feeling and how upset their are and what their going through, and someone always has to just completely ignore what they said and bring the focus to themselves? it always bothers me when I open posts like “Hey guys, I’m like mad depressed and sad, so, I’ma leave for a bit. love yall, blah blah blah…” and someone will be like “… I-I’m leaving t-too… because I’m depresso…” and then the whole focus of the post will be brought to them and all… or like when someone’s ACTUALLY talking about their problems and need help and they’re literally ASKING FOR HELP, and all ANYONE can ever do is just IGNORE THAT PERSON. It actually frustrates me. Now, maybe I’m being TOOOOOOO cynical… But it’s dead fucking accurate.

[A Former User]

@Xavier-M
Exactly.

[finn.in.outer.space.]

Exactly because it makes people not wanna share their feelings

[A Former User]

@luv-4-finnxo EXACTLY, AND THEN THEY FEEL LIKE THEY HAVE NO ONE TO TALK TO AND LIKE NO ONE ACTUALLY FUCKING LISTENS TO THEM, AND BECAUSE I HAD TO GO THROUGH THE SAME SHIT, EVERY SINGLE FUCKING TIME I WAS ON HERE BEGGING FOR SOMEONE TO LISTEN JUST FOR A MINUTE, AND I’M SEVERELY EMPATHETIC, IT MAKES ME SO HEARTBROKEN AND FRUSTRATED TO SEE THAT!! THAT’S WHY I ALWAYS TELL EVERYONE THEY CAN TALK TO ME, BECAUSE I KNOW IT HURTS

[A Former User]

@Xavier-M LIKE CAN PEOPLE NOT MAKE IT ALL ABOUT THEMSELVES FOR ONE DAMN MINUTE?!

[finn.in.outer.space.]

Exactly cause this happened to me on multiple occasions, get your head out your ass and realize the world is not about you and have empathy dammit

[A Former User]

This is typically the point I try to make to people who seem to be taking life a little too harshly:

          "Life is harder than it was made out to be when we were little. They don't teach that in school, or tell you about it beforehand, Life just happens. It can be fun, and nice. Or, it can be mean and seem like everything is going wrong. It's natural and we all go through it. But regardless of how hard life gets, we all are strong, we all fight through it, That's why we're here. We have to be strong, and tread on, or we're just proving life to be stronger than we are."

It’s an easy way to tell someone everything will be okay, without sugar coating anything. Because i believe true depression isn’t detectable by word of mouth. Depression isn’t something people like to display out on neon lights. A lot of people can tell the difference between depression and a cry for help, because there is a difference.

Now, a cry for help isn’t necessarily a bad thing, and that doesn’t mean people shouldn’t ask for help/attention when they need to, but it’s important to know the difference.

Long story short, it’s okay to ask for help, a venting, a rant, etc., Just know that, in order to be helped, you have to accept help and be able to adapt to life.

[A Former User]

@luv-4-finnxo EXACTLY!!! ALSO, why are people so apathic now a days, like we get it, ur tryna be mysterious and edgy and cruel and mean, but it just makes you look like a douche

[A Former User]

@CaptainPresto yeah no I completely agree with that and understand that

[finn.in.outer.space.]

It’s OK to have empathy and give a fuck

[A Former User]

@luv-4-finnxo why don’t people realize that

[finn.in.outer.space.]

The thing now is to be edgy and not care about anything or anyone, so kids don’t know how to give a fuck

[gmfu]

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