im gonna fucking take my life away and not give two fucks.
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@Duchess awwā¦ thank you duchessā¦ and i know that ill be okay sooner or later its just going to take time.
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@Duchess and yea, my relationship was really important to me. but ykā¦ i cant make someone love me forever.
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@a7x-isbetter-thanu i know. im trying to make myself take a break. and its so hard not to go back bc i want to but i cant. not again. and that honestly really hurts and its going to take me a WHILE to finally figure myself out.
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@xay-is-hot-duh A big part of growing up and maturing is finding yourself, and being able to be independent. Relationships come and go. Itāll be like that for your whole life. People will come in and out of your life every day. Some stay a while, some only last a day or two. You have to get used to that. Things come up, some people may not be who you think they are. Youāll be deceived, youāll be lied to. Itās just how life flows. I know itās hard to handle sometimes, but as youāre young, take it as a learning experience.
The way I like to see it, the more people you interact with, the more people come and go, the more you discover about yourself, the more you learn about what you do and donāt like. Like I said, people are assholes. Youāll start getting an idea of the people you should avoid, people you like to be around, etc.
Youāll bounce back. Youāll get better, itās all in good time. Iāve been broken many times. I find myself lucky to be where I am now, and I only got there with experience.
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@xay-is-hot-duh
Finding the right person in a relationship can be tough as hell. I can only imagine the pain of being so attached to a person and having that all taken from you. Itās a totally okay thing to feel that way no matter how old you are.
Love is tough shit, dude.Its terrible that love has never been what itās made out to be, even in lasting relationships. People lie, cheat, hurt, give up, etc.
I hope you can find someone whoāll stick with you through it all. Many people do, after all youāve still got most of your life left lol. Just donāt let your failures hold you back.
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To touch on cyxās point; my general advice to anyone under the age of likeā¦ 16 probably, is to just avoid relationships altogether. Life as a teen is extremely difficult emotionally for pretty much everyone (I say that being a teen who is in a relationship), getting in a relationship might seem like itāll help with that but it can in many ways actually make it more difficult. Genuinely consider if youāre in an emotionally stable enough place in your life for yourself and for the other person, and if youād be able to stand losing them.
I know I wouldnāt know what to do with my life if I lost my person. We should all have a plan in case of the worst. After all, people die sometimes, and thereās nothing we can do about it, so always be prepared. -
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hey, just saying, but this is why i donāt go through people like i go through cups of water per day (your favorite water drinker weewoo)
iāve only been in 2 relationships, one with rusty/zero (lasted likeā¦ either 3 days or a week)
and with red/ruby/yourlocaldumbass, weāve been together for likeā¦ 4 years now i think, even though sheās rarely present enough for me to talk to her. itās been months since we spoke, and i am indeed concerned for her health, as i also donāt know if she doesnāt wanna be /w me anymore but hEY. -
the dark lord a lot š
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šš rylie (lexi) i can tell
iād ask if you were ok but i dunno if you are or not so im gonna ask anyway, are you ok -
the dark lord honest answer, no.
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šš rylie (lexi) damn, hope you feel better soon
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šš rylie (lexi) i know thatās your upset, I would be to but honestly fuck him. He can go fuck off.
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@Global-Moderators i would highly suggest this topic gets locked
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@A0x26 why.? bc i was venting basically??
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listen i understand the troubles of a breakup but knowing this site this topic might become another battleground
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@A0x26 understandable. ill delete it if anything.
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