okay. this post is mostly for cyx but its also for everyone too.
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i have just gone through my notifications and saw that cyx has made a post and it was; “It happened. (mods, lock this please.)” so if you havent looked into that then please do and this topic should explain things a lot more.
so, cyx, i am highly sorry that you and your girlfriend broke up. thats something not only i know but mostly everyone else here knows how that feels. when you end up finding someone who you know is going to be the right person for you or who your going to be with forever and everything turns out amazing until something horrible happens and you dont know what to do bc its all turned to complete crap bc of the horrible thing that happens. in this case, you had to tell your parents and they werent happy about it so you had to break up with her bc of your parents. now, this is common thing. this happens all the time where someone is dating someone else whether its online or in person [it mostly happens when the other person is online] and the parent ends up finding out and then theres just a whole mess in between. i know how that is. literally for example, me and xay. theres some problems in between there that isnt going to be brought up but my mom told me that if she ends up finding out that im still dating them shes going to take my phone away from me to where i cant. and that honestly scares me bc in my head im like “oh shit, if i get caught dating someone that honestly means the world to me then i wont be able to talk to them again.” and thats one of the things i lie about. when i talk about them i say that they’re just my friend and that i just care about them a lot. and you know, i used to lie to my mom a lot but i stopped a while ago so this is a new thing to just lie to my mom about someone who makes me smile most of the time. so i get it, i understand. i understand why your so hurt, and i understand why your also probably upset at your parents as well. breakups arent easy. ive been through a lot of breakups and im sure you have too. but you know, when you have to break up with the one top person that makes you happy and you’ve probably promised that you’d never break up with them, it hurts. and its going to hurt bc that person you were with was an angel in your eyes and you had to leave that angel behind bc of people that got upset at you for it. you wont be okay as of for now. i will be honest with that. but what i can be honest with the part where i say that everything will be okay. no matter how much pain it leads to, you’ll be okay.
@Global-Moderators if you please you can lock this post but this post isnt just for one person, its for everyone that has gone through something horrible like this case, a breakup. but if needed, you may lock the post. just wanted to say a few things tho. :)
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that’s nice but this should’ve been a dm
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𝜗𝜚 rylie thank you so much…I’m glad that you understand and that you made this post not only for me but for other people as well. Thank you so much. I’m not really sure how to stress it enough but thank you. It’s just annoying how my mom expects me and my gf to respect her when she’s literally done nothing of the kind to me. She’s never respected my boundaries or feelings so how do I ever tell her shit if I never feel I can y’know? And my gf absolutely fucking hates my mom so ofc we’re gonna be sneaky behind her back…it’s just sad because I really don’t wanna let her go but- weve actually decided not to just let each other go, we still talk to each other on text like we’re dating but we just can’t see each other irl alone. Thank you for understanding and making this post ♥️♥️🤭♥️♥️ it really means a lot to me that you care.
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@marvie229 it should have, i do agree with that. but in the title and even throughout the whole post i mentioned that it wasnt just towards one person. breakups happen a lot and if someone has also been through this case then maybe they should at least get the chance to take in the time and think about this. its a common thing when parents find out that your dating someone. i feel like a lot of people have gone through the same thing that cyx is going through so maybe this is the time for them to feel like im basically talking to them too.
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𝜗𝜚 rylie forgor
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@JeffMyBeloved I notice that a lot with not just my parent, but parents in general; they demand your utmost respect because they’re the reason you’re alive. The thing with it though, parents that do that and say that are the very same parents that don’t respect your personal space, boundaries, and perfectly normal love lives they don’t need to worry themselves with.
And for a lot of people, that doesn’t change until they get older, and sometimes it never goes away. I just hope that when you get older, you can be a bit more firm with your mother, and that she stops being such a… Y e a h . -
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𝜗𝜚 rylie i hate being dyslexic
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@Thetruepath you silly goober
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@JeffMyBeloved aww, your welcome. :)) and of course ill care. i know how breakups are and i highly know how parents are too. my mom has always been strict with me dating people. especially if the person is online. but i cant and i wont just stop my feelings for someone just bc she doesnt want me to date them. thats something that ill gladly get in trouble for. she cant force me to stop loving them no matter the situation. and thats honestly what parents need to hear. they need to hear that your not going to stop loving someone who has brought your mental stability up so high to the point that they’re one of the top reasons why your still here. i hate parents sometimes.
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@Thetruepath lol understandable
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𝜗𝜚 rylie i read that bottom part three times and still thought you wanted the post locked
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@Thetruepath no, no, i honestly dont want the post locked but if you and the other mods think that its appropriate to lock it then go ahead.
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𝜗𝜚 rylie they aren’t online so it’s my call. i don’t have a problem keeping the post unlocked as long as no drama starts lol
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@Thetruepath if drama does start, which… i hope it doesnt since this is an important topic to most people. but IF drama starts then ill make sure the post does get locked.
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𝜗𝜚 rylie alr thank you lol. lets hope it doesn’t but you gotta do what you gotta do ig
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@Thetruepath fr tho
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Also, I find it funny how me and my gfs relationship is deadass some Romeo and Juliet type shit
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ok
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@Izzy bruh 😀
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𝜗𝜚 rylie tbh this is kinda relatable…I’ve had some gf’s that I thought would be with me forever, yet they leave at the most awful time, right when your thinking you might actually be worth something in this small world…for example with my last gf…she loved me and I loved her…I would end up hurting myself(scratched the back of my hand until it bled because I had lunch detention and couldn’t see her until after) she took me to her locker, grabbed a bandage, cleaned it for me, and kissed my hand…after that, I thought to myself…”she’s going to be with me forever”…next thing you know…july 1st…one day before our 2 month anniversary, she broke up with me saying “I deserved someone better”…she was the one I deserved…she was the one that was better than any of my other gf’s…I’ll still never understand why I’m not liked enough as I always thought I was….
