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your friend likes your ex but he makes your friend happy so you smile along even though it hurts because this friend knows the shit he put you through for about a year even before you were together. but you already said you didnât care so you canât revoke your consent now and you just have to be upset that he didnât treat you like that in silence. because even though you donât love him like that anymore that shit still fucking stings and youâre still picking up the pieces from the trauma that he gave you. and you know if they start dating you have to talk to this person but heâs not worth losing this friend over, so you just have to let the old wounds reopen. then your grandma dies and your life falls apart so your moms gonna be emotionally unstable and yelling a lot for the next month. and you know youâre gonna hate yourself for said next month. but youâre already going through stress so youâre trying not to cry at every second of the day but you pretend youâre fine when youâre really not fine but you donât feel like explaining that your life sucks because you donât want your friends to worry to or to piss your mom off and make her feel like you hate yourself again and then baam you end up back on antidepressants and those make you wanna kill yourself even more because youâre not yourself. and then you feel like a horrible boyfriend because of all the shit that went down last wednesday and you canât be there for the person you love with your whole heart because youâre already depressed and suppressing it to make your family happy but you want nothing more than to hear him laugh again. cause haha. thats mee.
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@finneass
Zamn.
That used to beâŚ
So I know your feeling.
itâs tough. buy life goes on
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@Michi4959 I know but im going through a lot man.
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Iâm good though yâall <33
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@finneass said in pov (kinda vent):
your friend likes your ex but he makes your friend happy so you smile along even though it hurts because this friend knows the shit he put you through for about a year
So If you break up with someone everyone else is supposed to not date them? Sounds unreasonable
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@Whited-Out-Femboy-Collector What kind of shit are you on
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@InvalidBandit shit youâve never seen before
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@Whited-Out-Femboy-Collector never said that lmao, just said it hurt because he cheated on me and abused me lol
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@finneass
Then express your damn feeling about it, or talk to the ex about it
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Hey. Just know that itâs gonna be okay. It happens to the best of us.
One thing, however. If it truly makes you uncomfortable, please talk to your friend about this.
And if your friend gets upset, just know that if they abandon you you just like that for someone shitty like your ex, theyâre not for you. I know itâs been said over and over again, but there areâŚGarbonglungiusamillion fish in the sea⌠Enough for you to find a friend who will care for you, and you got us to back you up!
Weâre all here for you in MPPC, and weâre glad you can talk to us about this.
Most people bottle up their emotions until they burst, usually ending in bad consequences. Itâs good to let these things off your chest.I am truly sorry about your grandmother, and I hope she rests in peace. This time comes for everyone, and Iâm sorry hers was now.
You should take time to grieve and let your emotions out. Keep in mind that these emotions will pass, and everything will get better.
Even when you stoop to your lowest, just know that things can get better from there. You may not have reached it yet, but the time will come eventually.
Believe me, youâre not alone, and I can say this with experience.
If you ever need a friend to talk to, Iâll be here for you when you need me. I may not always be online, but Iâll still be happy to talk, despite our conflict in the pastI wish you the best, and I hope this helps <3
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@finneass figured i was gonna leave that part out but since you were so kind stinka
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@Whited-Out-Femboy-Collector You see, Finn is worried about their friend, but not only that, theyâre reminded of the shit their ex did to them.
Itâs upsetting to hear that Finnâs ex is treating their friend better than them, which is kinda ass in my opinion.Yes, someone else can date them, but doesnât mean they should.
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So if one person hates a pie because it made them have an allergic reaction, everyone else should avoid the pie?
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@Whited-Out-Femboy-Collector Youâre not very smart, are you?
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@InvalidBandit actually I am
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@Whited-Out-Femboy-Collector Thatâs something completely different to this topic. Why canât you just be nice, and be more supportive? Heâs going through a lot right now, and youâre just downright disrespectful. Please, consider being more nicer, and less⌠Smartass. Please.
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@Whited-Out-Femboy-Collector And even if you are âsmartâ, youâre still rude and disrespectful. If you have a problem with this topic, just donât respond. This is the end of this argument, otherwise, a moderator will be contacted and we will have this thread locked if you try to defend yourself. Thank you <3
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people who proclaim themselves as being smart donât end up being the sharpest tool in the shed at the very end
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finneass <33 Sevendust VibesđŠśâ¤ Bannedlast edited by finn.in.outer.space. Nov 7, 2023, 3:14 PM Nov 7, 2023, 8:14 PM
@Whited-Out-Femboy-Collector If you were smart, you would realize that you wouldnât want your friend to date someone who abused you physically and mentally for months, would you? Do you realize the amount of trauma I had to go to fucking therapy for because of him? No you donât. So no, I donât want my friend to go through what I went through because of the shit he did to me.
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@Whited-Out-Femboy-Collector Real