this is my red flag

[Alastor]

Red flag: You are too much of a people pleaser. You think too much about how people will feel about a situation and it takes away from you being really present. Green flag: You are a very emotional person and when you like someone, you are 100% invested in them.

[A Former User]

@Tsubasa-Hasashi
My red flag: you rp too much that u rp in a argument
My Green Flag: You Rp Often
My Red Flag: You Don’t Say Sorry As Much Anymore Even When Complimented Or Given Something.
My Green Flag: You Say Sorry Too Much

[finn.in.outer.space.]

Red Flag: Jokes about your insecurities
Green Flag: Reassures you when you need it
Red Flag: When you talk about your feelings they make it your fault
Green Flag: They tell you when you’re wrong but still validate your feelings

[A Former User]

@finneass That first red flag is real omg i hate that

[Xx_Midnight-skyz_xX]

@Tsubasa-Hasashi second one is deffo me i cried at Tinkerbelle

[InkyNightmares]

@Tsubasa-Hasashi First of all
People pleasers act like this because of their childhood. Their parents are always looking down on them and always telling them to be better, always saying they’re not good enough. They try to please other people so they can get that recognition that their parents never gave to them, and feel better about themself. I can say this with experience, because this is who I am. We care about ourselves, that’s why we do the things we do.

The second one is just a stupid fucking simp.

This tells me that you want someone all to yourself, you don’t want them to have friends, you want them to spoil the fuck out of you, and just be… probably a yandere over you, or vice versa.

Kinda weird…

[InkyNightmares]

Goofbread🍌😸 Oh, and you want a stupid asshole of a partner who doesn’t care about the people around them.

[finn.in.outer.space.]

Theres a huge difference between obsession and crushes or being in love. Being 100% invested in someone is weird to me especially if y’all aren’t dating

[InkyNightmares]

@finneass literal definition of a simp

[A Former User]

Green flag: real 💪🤪

[kitkatgirlie]

red flag: being a jerk to friends and or family
green flag: just being an overall nice person
red flag: being overly protective to the point i cant be 5 seconds away
green flag: letting me have free will but at the same time partially protective