this girl in my dance pisses me off [storytime]

[ugly.hoez.hate.me]

Okay there’s this girl in my dance, let’s call her stacy i guess i don’t know her age exactly but it’s either my age or a year younger.
There’s no saying that stacy ISN’T gay, because she is. and i dont give a fuck how open or how closed she is about being a homo because it isn’t my buisness in the first place.
shes just being a hoe about it
theres like 5 different girls she talks about being fine shyt ALL THE TIME. and i’m one of them. Usually i couldn’t give two shits if someone had a crush on me because y’know you can’t control what you feel and it isn’t your fault. but she runs her mouth about it.
Shes seriously gonna look at me and whisper to this other girl that i’m ‘fine shyt’ while tucking her hair behind her ear as if i EVER specified i was okay with that. Silence does not mean consent/approval.
It was fine at first untill she started making moves on shit. I HAVE the flu and i’m still in recovery atm and i did state that yesterday. During dance i tripped during a turn and i was laughing because i wasn’t hurt and she runs up to me and wraps her arms around me from behind; her head right by mine as shes shushing me and telling me im gonna be okay she was joking but please don’t touch me like that
i’ve only known her in a friend way for maybe a month and i know damn well the only reason she came up to me was because she wanted an excuse to touch me. Which is fine but she probably has the flu now
And i saw her full on STARING at my ass last week through the mirror. Like i get you wanna get a lookie at my cookie but at least be subtle about it. i actually almost mentioned it to her.
i hate being confrontational but i want my space

[angelwingz]

randy uhhh this is lwk disgusting…,

Like, im lgbtq myself but that dont give anyone the right to do That and that also could be classified as sexual harassment/assault. Ya could get her kicked out of the dance class if you tell someone/the instructor and if they do take it seriously, if y’all go to the same school, she wont be allowed near you or in any of your classes.

[Your Local Freak]

randy said in this girl in my dance pisses me off [storytime]:

she runs up to me and wraps her arms around me from behind; her head right by mine as shes shushing me and telling me im gonna be okay she was joking but please don’t touch me like that
i’ve only known her in a friend way for maybe a month and i know damn well the only reason she came up to me was because she wanted an excuse to touch me. Which is fine but she probably has the flu now
And i saw her full on STARING at my ass last week through the mirror. Like i get you wanna get a lookie at my cookie but at least be subtle about it. i actually almost mentioned it to her.
i hate being confrontational but i want my space

HI SO THIS IS HARRASSMENT??? HELLO???

[ugly.hoez.hate.me]

nah no way thats harassment you sure cro

[angelwingz]

randy im pretty sure it is twin! ive had multiple experiences myself with sexual assault and harassment.

Sexual harassment is mostly grouped with sexual comments while sexual assault is mostly touching without consent. They are very different things!

[Your Local Freak]

randy yeahh, so this definitely is harassment- I’ve been harassed multiple times (and assaulted once) by people, and this definitely falls under that category-

[ugly.hoez.hate.me]

how should i tell her [politely] to get off my meat

[angelwingz]

randy uhh erm maybe tell her youre very very uncomfortable and you dont appreciate your boundaries being disrespected. You can also tell a trusted adult about whats going on and they can have a talk with her.