Istg SH MENTIONED
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lil_sillyz maybe talk to her and see what’s bugging her or was is triggering her but don’t make her tell you.
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Artemis my friend asked her and she said “bc I was bored.”
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Artemis wha?
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Also she said she would give us free blades too.
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sh can start as boredom, or curiosity. that doesn’t mean it’s invalid or that it isnt actually sh because even doing it out of boredom can make it out to be an addiction.
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lil_sillyz enticing others to commit self harm is a crime, please don’t let your friend get herself in legal trouble
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lil_sillyz nothing, I wasn’t expecting that sorry, maybe something is going on she just won’t say. Just try to be there and make sure shes okay
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mini gourdy Ik, I jst don’t know what to do atp. Bc she constantly does it and Ik how it is, I’ve been there before and I’m still going thru it, but me and fg are starting to give up on helping her
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Artemis I will, trust me
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zack I won’t, I promise
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does she reach out to you for help? if not, leave her be.
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mini gourdy idrk if she has or not, but if she has it’s prolly to one of my other friends
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lil_sillyz yeah, just be there make sure she’s okay but don’t push it on her but just let her know you are here for her anytime she needs
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Artemis I keep telling her that, but if she doesn’t rlly care or doesn’t wanna worry me, her hurting herself in general worries me. But I’ll try to talk to her tmr and if I find out she cvt again I’m giving up,
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so she hasn’t really involved you much in this? i may be misunderstanding, because i dont understand why youre getting so upset about it if she isnt actively reaching out to you asking for assistance and making it a huge problem or something.
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mini gourdy correct, and it’s sorta affecting me because she was doing so well in healing and seeing her hurt herself jst aches me for some dumb reason. Idk why I care this much,
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sh IS an addiction. it’s not as simple as going ‘hey stop for me’ and then just boom dropping the blade because its so much more than that. in the brink of my addiction i swore i could stop whenever i wanted to and i was just doing it out of curiosity but i really wasn’t.
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lil_sillyz hm okay
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mini gourdy I know, I used to SH before. And I’ve tried giving her alternatives and seeing how that goes, like for example I’ll tell her to use a hair tie and ask her how that goes, or try a rubber band, smth that WONT make her bleed as much and fills that aching void, but idk I’m trying to help her
