Honestly just a little vent
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It’s hard to be the depressed funny friend, you go through so much and I make jokes about every pc of trauma I go through and people ask me if I’m okay and I say I’m fine, but that’s a lie I’m not okay I’m going through way too much right now.
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@jeff-is-my-4lifer I’m the friend, and I do suffer.
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I genuinely need therapy and help because I’ve been trying because there’s people going through worse things than me and my mom always remind me that there’s people going through worst things but what I’m going through seems like it
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@jeff-is-my-4lifer my dms are open. if you want to vent,
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Because sometimes it just feels like people just keep me around just to have me around and they don’t really need me around, and it hurts to think about the fact that everybody who I need in my life doesn’t need me around or doesn’t want me around just keep me around not hurt my feelings.
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I’m always open to talk. Literally all it takes is a few buttons and you’ll have a response ASAP. If you EVER need something just let me know and I’ll be right here
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I’m going through much more than what I let on, people always tell me that I seem really mysterious and that’s what I am I don’t like talking about my feelings and I don’t like letting people know about my feelings because I don’t like people in my business.
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@jeff-is-my-4lifer i am here for you.
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@jeff-is-my-4lifer honestly I can relate, being the funny depressed friend. I do empathize with you, and I am very sorry that you go through so much and feel you can’t talk to anyone. I just want you to know, you can always talk to me. Don’t let your feelings build up like that, it just makes it worse for yourself and those around who see your suffering, and the people on here too. You need to open up, as hard as it is, I find it extremely hard to open up. But, I’m here for you, a lot of people are here for you, I’m willing to chat with you anytime. Okay? Ily <3
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@Hexed-To-Death ilyt pookie
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@jeff-is-my-4lifer Perhaps you pin yourself with the “depressed funny friend” role and not realize it is unhealthy. I agree that jokes are fun and make things better, but I think people steam roll over their depression way too much today. Most people want to be that funny friend that never act sad. People today downplay their problems in a fun little joke but not realize that could be doing more harm than healing. I would not stick to being the person you think people want from you and start being real with yourself. The amount of times you deny yourself and your pain will only create more sadness and further depression. If people want to be someone who jokes about their sadness, well don’t be the joker, be the one who looks on the bright side. Don’t deny the dark side, but be grateful for what’s on the bright side. And don’t feel like you can’t talk about the darkness. That’s literally the most important part about healing from it. There’s a difference between being positive and just plain acting like the pain doesnt exist between the the jokes. It’s okay to be funny and laugh, but the upmost important part of using humor to heal, is dealing with the sadness first. Don’t go straight into laughing about the pain. Let out the sadness first.
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Finn it is absolutely OK to vent other people especially when people want to help you you just don’t like letting people help you and it gets frustrating because it’s like, I’m at your house almost everyday and I’m willing to help you and I’m willing to talk to you because I know how you feel about your therapist and going to go talk to them about things because you’re not comfortable with somebody you’re not close with knowing personal shit
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But I’m here and I’ve been here for so long and you’re not letting me help
