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jeff.isweird said in A better life?:
i never meant to hurt you
:I Yeah right. You don’t cheat and “never mean to hurt anyone.”
Honestly, all of this sounds very close to a narcissistic relationship. I absolutely could be wrong, but the fact that they bomb you with the thoughtful & charming stuff to win you over, are very unloyal, are jealous of you being close to other people, they guilt trip, and they now sabotage your current relationship… Yeah, that’s extremely toxic if not narcissistic. I used to be friends with a guy who did those very things to me and I found out he was a narcissist. Of course I’d have to know her myself but wowzers. I am glad your girlfriend doesn’t think the screenshots are real but I think you really need to start considering going no contact with this person. They’re messing up your life as I see, and that’s no way to live. How come you consider them a loose friend?
@Pԋσҽɳιx Whoa, what? Well that’s weird. Are you falling behind because of all this?
@OVERLORD What does he do/say?
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@Duchess I’ve got great grades but I’d rather have terrible grades and not be stressed out
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@Pԋσҽɳιx Right, yeah. I understand that. Stress for a long time can have a negative impact on your health, even.
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That this one girl would just leave bcs she ruined everything for me and before she came everything was fine, in fact everything was perfect but she came and she ruined it all, so I wish she’d be gone 🫤
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@7o2_an-a What is bcs?
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@Duchess because
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@7o2_an-a OHH I feel silly
Okay, so were you friends with this girl at some point?
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@Duchess I feel.like this is targeted to me.
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Angiee😻 I meant to mention @7o2_an-a
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Wait, yes I did. Why are you thinking that’s targeted at you?
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@Duchess Bc every since I got here its been problems with me and her so.
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W most of the people I’ve ever had problems w I was at some point their freind but then people be switching up fast asf😭 -
@7o2_an-a and then they call me fake and talk shit and it’s just not a good friendship😪🙏🏼
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Angiee😻 if u think it’s targetted towards you, then yk you’ve done something wrong🤷♀️
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@7o2_an-a So was it a betrayal? or
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@Duchess yeah, basically. People tend to do that for more Eason or just to try and get back at you for things,
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@7o2_an-a Too bad you can’t know in advance how people are before getting too close to them.
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@Duchess yeah, but that’s part of life, and you get to learn a lesson as well, and although I may not like that person I still appreciate the fact that they taught me a lesson.
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@7o2_an-a Very true.
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Mostly he bothers me with things that have no match in what I say
