okay. this post is mostly for cyx but its also for everyone too.
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@marvie229 it should have, i do agree with that. but in the title and even throughout the whole post i mentioned that it wasnt just towards one person. breakups happen a lot and if someone has also been through this case then maybe they should at least get the chance to take in the time and think about this. its a common thing when parents find out that your dating someone. i feel like a lot of people have gone through the same thing that cyx is going through so maybe this is the time for them to feel like im basically talking to them too.
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𝜗𝜚 rylie forgor
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@JeffMyBeloved I notice that a lot with not just my parent, but parents in general; they demand your utmost respect because they’re the reason you’re alive. The thing with it though, parents that do that and say that are the very same parents that don’t respect your personal space, boundaries, and perfectly normal love lives they don’t need to worry themselves with.
And for a lot of people, that doesn’t change until they get older, and sometimes it never goes away. I just hope that when you get older, you can be a bit more firm with your mother, and that she stops being such a… Y e a h . -
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𝜗𝜚 rylie i hate being dyslexic
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@Thetruepath you silly goober
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@JeffMyBeloved aww, your welcome. :)) and of course ill care. i know how breakups are and i highly know how parents are too. my mom has always been strict with me dating people. especially if the person is online. but i cant and i wont just stop my feelings for someone just bc she doesnt want me to date them. thats something that ill gladly get in trouble for. she cant force me to stop loving them no matter the situation. and thats honestly what parents need to hear. they need to hear that your not going to stop loving someone who has brought your mental stability up so high to the point that they’re one of the top reasons why your still here. i hate parents sometimes.
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@Thetruepath lol understandable
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𝜗𝜚 rylie i read that bottom part three times and still thought you wanted the post locked
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@Thetruepath no, no, i honestly dont want the post locked but if you and the other mods think that its appropriate to lock it then go ahead.
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𝜗𝜚 rylie they aren’t online so it’s my call. i don’t have a problem keeping the post unlocked as long as no drama starts lol
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@Thetruepath if drama does start, which… i hope it doesnt since this is an important topic to most people. but IF drama starts then ill make sure the post does get locked.
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𝜗𝜚 rylie alr thank you lol. lets hope it doesn’t but you gotta do what you gotta do ig
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@Thetruepath fr tho
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Also, I find it funny how me and my gfs relationship is deadass some Romeo and Juliet type shit
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@Izzy bruh 😀
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𝜗𝜚 rylie tbh this is kinda relatable…I’ve had some gf’s that I thought would be with me forever, yet they leave at the most awful time, right when your thinking you might actually be worth something in this small world…for example with my last gf…she loved me and I loved her…I would end up hurting myself(scratched the back of my hand until it bled because I had lunch detention and couldn’t see her until after) she took me to her locker, grabbed a bandage, cleaned it for me, and kissed my hand…after that, I thought to myself…”she’s going to be with me forever”…next thing you know…july 1st…one day before our 2 month anniversary, she broke up with me saying “I deserved someone better”…she was the one I deserved…she was the one that was better than any of my other gf’s…I’ll still never understand why I’m not liked enough as I always thought I was….
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@JeffMyBeloved Wow, Im so sorry that happened. I really can’t even imagine if that happened to me. I feel like most people end up having to lie about their relationship, like Ry said, because of parents who break it off or at least threaten to if you don’t do it yourself. I really wish parents were more understanding of things like that. I feel like a lot of parents think relationships are bad for people. If they break it off to “stop you wrong getting hurt,” it hurt’s just about the same when you’re forced out of it.
