Practicing. (Fellow musicians welcome to vent.)
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 I donβt get it. Why get so pressed at your kid for so little reason? I could maybe understand if she has disorders that cause extreme emotion, but that still isnβt an excuse for basically bullying your kid. Does she have any conditions?
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@The4thFemC I mean, she had shit parents that were hella mentally abusive, so Iβm pretty sure sheβs got like PTSD, a lil OCD, depression, and weβre pretty sure she has undiagnosed ADHD- And sheβs a fucking insomniac, so she gets no damn sleep-
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0
Iβm slowly getting better but i just
donβt like practicing
I donβt like taking it out, rasining the bow, playing cause im always nervous iβll be heard when i mess up
I always feel safer with my teacher because sheβs always nice and understanding and makes me motivated
Thereβs also an edge
i like playing for a while but once iβm done iβm done. If you still want me to play then iβm gonna be stressed
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@Enzi no dude, thatβs so real. I love my teachers, theyβre so chill. And practice rooms with no one around are my best friend.
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 Alright, I can get behind that. Has she ever had help or are you and yoir family trying to get her help?
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@The4thFemC Haha fuck no- weβre broke as hell-
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Wubbrle the amazing Wubble Yeah, it could. If youβre constantly being told basically what you did wasnt enough and you got to change little things here and there, it kind of makes you feel like the goal posts keep changing. And youβll never be enough, which who wouldnt make someoen sad?
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 or like when i go to suzuki camp (one week camp made from my books program creator for piano violin and viol)
i do piano cause i am NOT doing violin
its always so fun to practice with my friends, listen to her play, giggle together, and just have fun
but its different for everybody.
I like practicing alone for violin. then in group class iβm FORCED to play piano AND violin without me being comfortable. Then i get NERVOUS, MESS UP, then people clap even though i know they donβt like it.
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 Iβm just hoping thingsβll get better. I can do fuck all right now and that hope probably doesnβt mean anything, but thatβs all I can do.
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@The4thFemC Either way, I appreciate it, man. <3 /p
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 my mom asf)
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 She doesnβt have the right to do shit that involves you but love you for who the hell you are. And if sheβs gonna be entitled, She can do it somewhere else that doesnβt involve her child. Remember, Its YOUR Life, Not HERS Who the hell does she think she is, Trying to dictate what YOU Have to do? I know, Sheβs your mom but like, She doesnβt have to be included in EVERYTHING. Not everyone in this world is perfect. Or better. Weβre all the same people. Living in shitholes. And dealing with assholes.
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@Lenore_Offical_From_Nevermore
AND. Not to mention, Not everyone wants to be perfect to be loved. Thatβs not fucking fair Nor cool. Thatβs fucking like- Parents need to be more loving and Supportive. I swear.
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If Nobody wants to do what YOU want, Donβt fucking force them. They wanna do what THEY wanna do. And You have to respect that.