i need advice
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should i drop my toxic irl friends? they’ve
disregarded my feelings and excused one of their friends rude behavior to me
said lies to my crush to ‘embarass me’ for no reason then acted like they did nothing wrong
was literally a bitch to me hands down
but like they’re my friends
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Should have left them when you met them
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Idk why you even stayed friends with them
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@yae-its-melanie-lokre Spealing from experience, yes. But just know that they will victimize themselves as well as continuing to harass you irl. Whether it’s physically or mentally, and if it’s mentally you’re gonna wish it was physically. It’s a lose-lose situation, you get hurt and mentally destroyed no matter what you do.
Not trying to scare you though
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@yae-its-melanie-lokre yes
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@Soggy_Bread no cause me and my crush were talking about how we both didn’t like this one girl (who is unironically one of the toxic friends)
and like later i’m trying to spill to one of my friends and she keeps following me around like ‘is the tea abt me’ and like i kept like having to tell her other scenarios n shit cause she wouldn’t stop following me -
@yae-its-melanie-lokre yes. from experience of having horrible friends in the past you need to hang out with people that makes you feel like your enough, not worthless. obviously your friends dont know what true friends are if they’re going to treat you bad. theres so much more better friends out there for you. you don’t deserve the pain bad people give you. ❤
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as i’ve learned, it’s better to be happy on your own than fake being happy to be in the presence of people. if people don’t better your life, drop them, learn that now because as you get older the mindset of needing people is what gets you into toxic relationships. leave those people behind without a second thought. people are simple, if they wanted to treat you well, they would. and if their excuse is that they “can’t” remember that you are a friend not a therapist, it’s not your job to fix anyone and you CAN’T fix anyone.
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okay its hard to drop toxic friends bro. like when i dropped one, all of my real friends didnt like me anymore. but i made new friends, way better. it will take time, but yea, drop them. if u r for sure they r toxic, get them out of your life. its gonna be hard at first but it gets better.
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I miss being a child, when it was hard to drop toxic 9-year-old friends
take it from me, tell em to fuck off, move on, and enjoy your childhood as much as you can because you’re gonna wish you did at some point
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